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  • in reply to: I want to change my life #36034
    Paul2017
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    Hi Vera, thanks for your post…
    I started work on the 10th – 3 days in and going strong… travel is a bit long each way but the goal is to get back into full time work and its becoming easier???

    all good… and glad to read about your saving still going strong.. I plan to do something similar… going to go on the support group now…
    speak soon
    Paul

    in reply to: If nothing changes nothing changes #36872
    Paul2017
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    I’m catching up on all the posts and goings-on in the life of us CG’s… i hope you enjoy your hols and reading your blogs it helps me understand that I should always be looking to change going forward…knowing that you are changing and going on a nice holiday gives me inspiration..i hope you have a great time…

    in reply to: Feeling dead inside #37876
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Hi Twnmum

    you are not alone….
    there are thousands of people who never make it this far but you have started a process – the one of acknowledgement… you can change from being addicted to being in recovery and this site can really help… I know.

    I have had a lot of troubles because of my gambling and I can see you have too…. you are not alone…

    get to the forums as often as you can … they helped me and maybe they will help you… you can do it if you really want to.
    its a good place to start… I hope to see you there.

    Paul
    you are not alone..

    I am sorry to hear of your difficulties

    in reply to: Accepting my losses and moving on!!! #7932
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Hi,
    firstly well done for acknowledging you have a problem… you are not alone and you are at a site that really can make a difference… I was lost 6 months ago and I have been able to change… its still a long road ahead but I started here too…

    join the forums – they are good… you need to make the effort if you want to change… its not easy but there is always help if you need it or want it… gambling ruined my past life… its a losers life…

    keep going my Compulsive gambler – you can change and you are not alone…

    Paul

    in reply to: EASY #174838
    Paul2017
    Participant

    nice one Vera…. I like.

    in reply to: EASY #8543
    Paul2017
    Participant

    nice one Vera…. I like.

    in reply to: I want to change my life #36030
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Nothing can replace the positivity I get from this site… every gambler or recovery gambler is enabled with positive thoughts on how we can become gamble free….
    I will continue to post and will try to join the ex-residents group but it is at an awkward time of day when I will be at work… shame there is not an evening one!
    I will also be aware of complacency- this is a very important part of my recovery…
    thanks..

    in reply to: I want to change my life #36029
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Today, I was offered employment full-time.,, I start in a week. I feel excited and happy that I have been given a chance to change my life….Now the hard work will begin…

    Its a new start, a start where I can become a great Dad to my princess. I was taught “life is choices” we make. I can lead a gamble free life if I put in place the preparations…and its really important to put in place, make the plans and prepare for changes as I move forward. Two main things I need to do now… set up a new bank account in preparation for my salary and my friend ( already agreed) to look after this and secondly, to start to rebuild my social life… My job offers me 50% discounted gym membership, that is the first thing done.

    I do understand as a recovering gambler, I need to replace my gambling with social events and its not just about work. I have re-read my journal tonight and I have acknowledged where I was 6 months ago and where I am now… I have the ability to change but I need to keep the change going…

    Life is the choices we make…. I choose gamble free….

    in reply to: Lost everything thanks to gambling #37880
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Hi Richpiana123,
    “you are not alone”.
    I started at this site, with total despair, with total loss of family and friends, with loss of everything including houses, cars and a well paid job… this is what gambling addicts do…. you are not alone…

    if you want to change and I mean really want to change your life around, then you should try the GMA residential programme. They know what they are doing and they know how to help to change your life around…. coming here is a good start and is a good place to talk to fellow CG’s but if you really want to make a difference to your life you need to make a decision that will change it forever – go and really learn how to become gamble free – I did and it works if you want it too….

    join the forums – they are great too…

    you are not alone and you can make it happen..

    hope to see you in a forum… you have taken a positive step, keep going …

    Paul

    in reply to: trattament f’dudley #97063
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Dan l-aħħar lestejt il-programm GMA u kelli waqfa qasira fin-nofs triq ukoll … Nista 'ngħid onestament, huwa l-aħjar post biex tbiddel ħajtek jekk int verament trid ukoll … ippruvajt GA, konsultazzjoni privata eċċ. trattament residenzjali jaħdem … jien kuntent u kuntent u nimmira li ngħix ħajja bla logħob – le m'għandix kura, jien dejjem inkun irkupru tal-lagħba, jien dejjem ikolli nibqa 'naħdem iebes imma isiru aktar faċli u aktar faċli … Ilgħabna għal żmien twil u bħali, jista 'jkun li ħassar kollox imma dan il-programm jagħtik iċ-ċans li terġa' titwieled … Xorti tajba … jekk tiffoka u tagħmel l-isforz biex ibdel, jista 'jiġri – it-terapisti huma brillanti, l-istaff kollu huwa brillanti … tafda fihom u tista' tgħix ħajja ħielsa. Magħmul tajjeb talli bdejt tinbidel … Paul

    in reply to: tratamiento en dudley #99079
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Recientemente completé el programa GMA y también tuve una corta estadía en la casa de medio camino … Honestamente puedo decir que es el mejor lugar para cambiar tu vida si realmente quieres también … He probado GA, consultoría privada etc .. un tratamiento residencial funciona … estoy feliz y contento y con el objetivo de llevar una vida libre de apuestas – no, no tengo una cura, siempre seré un jugador de recuperación, siempre tendré que seguir trabajando duro, pero lo será cada vez es más fácil … Hemos apostado durante mucho tiempo y como yo, puede que lo hayas arruinado todo pero este programa te dará la oportunidad de renacer … Buena suerte … si te concentras y haces el esfuerzo de cambiar, puede suceder: los terapeutas son brillantes, todo el personal es brillante … confíe en ellos y podrá llevar una vida libre de apuestas. Bien hecho por empezar a cambiar … Paul

    in reply to: behandling i dudley #132585
    Paul2017
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    Jeg har nylig fullført GMA -programmet og hadde et kort opphold i halvveis huset også … Jeg kan ærlig si at det er det beste stedet å forandre livet ditt hvis du virkelig vil det også … jeg har prøvd GA, privat rådgivning osv. .. en boligbehandling fungerer … jeg er glad og fornøyd og tar sikte på å leve et spillfritt liv – nei jeg har ikke en kur, jeg vil alltid være en gjenopprettingsgambler, jeg vil alltid måtte fortsette å jobbe hardt, men det vil bli enklere og enklere … Vi har gamblet lenge og som meg kan du ha ødelagt alt, men dette programmet vil gi deg sjansen til å bli gjenfødt … Lykke til … hvis du fokuserer og prøver å endring, det kan skje – terapeutene er strålende, alle ansatte er strålende … stol på dem, og du kan leve et spillfritt liv. Godt gjort for å begynne å endre … Paul

    in reply to: léčba v dudley #97180
    Paul2017
    Participant

    Nedávno jsem dokončil program GMA a také jsem měl krátký pobyt v domě na půl cesty … Upřímně mohu říci, že je to nejlepší místo, kde můžete změnit svůj život, pokud opravdu chcete také … Zkoušel jsem GA, soukromé poradenství atd .. rezidenční léčba funguje … jsem šťastný a spokojený a usiluji vést život bez hazardu – ne, nemám lék, vždy budu hazardní hráč na zotavení, vždy budu muset tvrdě pracovat, ale bude získávejte snazší a snazší … Hráli jsme dlouho a stejně jako já jste možná všechno zničili, ale tento program vám dá šanci znovu se narodit … Hodně štěstí … pokud se soustředíte a vynakládáte úsilí změnit, to se může stát – terapeuti jsou skvělí, všichni zaměstnanci jsou skvělí … důvěřujte jim a můžete vést život bez hazardu. Dobrá práce, že se začínáš měnit … Paule

    in reply to: ڈڈلی میں علاج #99093
    Paul2017
    Participant

    میں نے حال ہی میں جی ایم اے پروگرام مکمل کیا ہے اور آدھے راستے والے گھر میں بھی تھوڑا قیام کیا ہے … میں ایمانداری سے کہہ سکتا ہوں ، اگر آپ واقعی چاہتے ہیں تو یہ آپ کی زندگی کو تبدیل کرنے کی بہترین جگہ ہے … میں نے جی اے ، نجی مشاورت کی کوشش کی ہے ایک رہائشی علاج کام کرتا ہے۔ آسان اور آسان ہوجائیں … ہم نے ایک طویل عرصے سے جوا کھیلا ہے اور میری طرح آپ نے بھی سب کچھ برباد کر دیا ہوگا لیکن یہ پروگرام آپ کو دوبارہ جنم لینے کا موقع دے گا … خوش قسمتی … اگر آپ توجہ دیں اور کوشش کریں تبدیلی ، یہ ہو سکتا ہے – معالج شاندار ہیں ، تمام عملہ شاندار ہے … ان پر بھروسہ کریں اور آپ جوئے سے پاک زندگی گزار سکتے ہیں۔ اچھی طرح سے تبدیل کرنے کے لئے شروع کیا … پال

    in reply to: ਡਡਲੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਇਲਾਜ #132629
    Paul2017
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    ਮੈਂ ਹਾਲ ਹੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਜੀਐਮਏ ਪ੍ਰੋਗਰਾਮ ਨੂੰ ਪੂਰਾ ਕਰ ਲਿਆ ਹੈ ਅਤੇ ਅੱਧੇ ਰਸਤੇ ਦੇ ਘਰ ਵਿੱਚ ਥੋੜ੍ਹਾ ਸਮਾਂ ਵੀ ਰਿਹਾ ਹਾਂ … ਮੈਂ ਇਮਾਨਦਾਰੀ ਨਾਲ ਕਹਿ ਸਕਦਾ ਹਾਂ, ਜੇ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਸੱਚਮੁੱਚ ਵੀ ਚਾਹੁੰਦੇ ਹੋ ਤਾਂ ਤੁਹਾਡੀ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਬਦਲਣ ਲਈ ਇਹ ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਵਧੀਆ ਜਗ੍ਹਾ ਹੈ … ਮੈਂ ਜੀਏ, ਨਿਜੀ ਸਲਾਹ ਦੀ ਕੋਸ਼ਿਸ਼ ਕੀਤੀ ਹੈ ਆਦਿ .. ਇੱਕ ਰਿਹਾਇਸ਼ੀ ਇਲਾਜ ਕੰਮ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ … ਮੈਂ ਖੁਸ਼ ਅਤੇ ਸੰਤੁਸ਼ਟ ਹਾਂ ਅਤੇ ਇੱਕ ਜੂਏ ਤੋਂ ਮੁਕਤ ਜੀਵਨ ਜੀਉਣ ਦਾ ਟੀਚਾ ਰੱਖਦਾ ਹਾਂ – ਨਹੀਂ ਮੇਰੇ ਕੋਲ ਕੋਈ ਇਲਾਜ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ, ਮੈਂ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਇੱਕ ਰਿਕਵਰੀ ਜੁਆਰੀ ਬਣਾਂਗਾ, ਮੈਨੂੰ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਸਖਤ ਮਿਹਨਤ ਕਰਨ ਦੀ ਜ਼ਰੂਰਤ ਹੋਏਗੀ ਪਰ ਇਹ ਹੋਵੇਗਾ ਸੌਖੇ ਅਤੇ ਸੌਖੇ ਹੋ ਜਾਓ … ਅਸੀਂ ਲੰਮੇ ਸਮੇਂ ਤੋਂ ਜੂਆ ਖੇਡ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ ਅਤੇ ਮੇਰੇ ਵਾਂਗ, ਤੁਸੀਂ ਸ਼ਾਇਦ ਸਭ ਕੁਝ ਬਰਬਾਦ ਕਰ ਦਿੱਤਾ ਹੈ ਪਰ ਇਹ ਪ੍ਰੋਗਰਾਮ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਦੁਬਾਰਾ ਜਨਮ ਲੈਣ ਦਾ ਮੌਕਾ ਦੇਵੇਗਾ … ਚੰਗੀ ਕਿਸਮਤ … ਜੇ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਧਿਆਨ ਕੇਂਦਰਤ ਕਰਦੇ ਹੋ ਅਤੇ ਕੋਸ਼ਿਸ਼ ਕਰਦੇ ਹੋ ਬਦਲੋ, ਇਹ ਹੋ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ – ਥੈਰੇਪਿਸਟ ਹੁਸ਼ਿਆਰ ਹਨ, ਸਾਰਾ ਸਟਾਫ ਹੁਸ਼ਿਆਰ ਹੈ … ਉਨ੍ਹਾਂ 'ਤੇ ਭਰੋਸਾ ਕਰੋ ਅਤੇ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਜੂਏ ਤੋਂ ਮੁਕਤ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਜੀ ਸਕਦੇ ਹੋ. ਬਦਲਣਾ ਸ਼ੁਰੂ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਬਹੁਤ ਵਧੀਆ … ਪਾਲ

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