Hi Phoenix
I am so glad Velvet gave you a good reply mine may have seemed a bit negative, I did not mean it that way, my husband and I have been married for 25 years and most of those years he is” the nicest person you could meet” we have four children and most our times are or were “good times” but all I can say now is if your partner is willing to admit he is a cg do what ever it takes to make him go and get help, but would also say if you have spent any time with a cg You Are Stronger Than You Think seriously you have gone this far!!!!