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24 June 2019 at 8:09 pm in reply to: Compulsive gambler , chased loss got it back then lost everything again #47547charlesModerator
Hi Murr,
A couple of suggerstions.
You talk about getting rid of that 10k line of credit when you have paid it off? You would be better to reduce that credit as you pay it off. Otherwise you will have available credit right up to the point that it is totally cleared. When you owe 1k on it the 9k available would be givign the addiction the opportunity to kick in.
You also talk about letting family have money when things are cleard – why not do that now?
Ive just scanned over your thread, it was only a month or so ago that you were saying how supportive GA was and you were getting to 3 meetings a week. From less than a week ago:
“I know I should keep going to GA”
You also spoke about having an appointment for another treatment programme? How did that go?
Keep posting.
charlesModeratorHi Meghna, well done on telling your husband.
charlesModeratorVera, forget what that site did/didn’t do.
Focus on YOU and the things you can do/not do.
Currently you are choosing not to do something, I am sure your addiction is delighted.
Try and get back to the things that will annoy your addiction.
charlesModeratorHi Vera,
In the nicest possible way – get your butt back to what you know was working! For you that meant GA meetings and groups here.
Keep what remains of your lump safe – maybe think about tyig it up for a longr period like you did to start with.
Then look at what you can do moving forwards.
We all know that No money = No gambling. However the reverse is also true: No gambling = we have money again and that is when we need to plan for.
Keep posting, here on your own thread, and again – get your butt back to what you KNOW works.
charlesModeratorБраво Изи, спрял си преди, така че знаеш, че можеш да го направиш отново. Този път не забравяйте да поддържате връзка тук. Ако се нуждаем от помощ, за да спрем хазарта, също е важно да поддържаме възстановяването. Не можех да спра сам и нямам причина да мисля, че мога да остана спрян и сам. Keepp публикуване.
charlesModeratorよくやったIzzy、あなたは前に立ち止まったので、もう一度やることができます。今回は、ここで連絡を取り合うようにしてください。ギャンブルをやめるために助けが必要な場合は、回復を維持することも重要です。私は自分で立ち止まることができず、自分で立ち止まることができると考える理由もありません。 Keeppの投稿。
charlesModeratorअच्छा किया इज़ी, आप पहले ही रुक गए थे ताकि आप जान सकें कि आप इसे फिर से कर सकते हैं। इस बार सुनिश्चित करें कि आप यहां संपर्क में रहें। अगर हमें जुए को रोकने के लिए मदद की जरूरत है तो रिकवरी को बनाए रखना भी जरूरी है। मैं अपने आप नहीं रुक सकता था और मेरे पास यह सोचने का कोई कारण नहीं था कि मैं खुद भी रुक सकता था। पोस्ट करते रहो।
charlesModeratorBravo Izzy, tu t'es arrêté avant donc tu sais que tu peux recommencer. Cette fois, assurez-vous de rester en contact ici. Si nous avons besoin d'aide pour arrêter de jouer, il est également important de maintenir la récupération. Je ne pouvais pas m'arrêter tout seul et je n'ai aucune raison de penser que je pourrais rester arrêté tout seul non plus. Gardez la publication.
charlesModeratorJól van Izzy, korábban megálltál, így tudod, hogy újra meg tudod csinálni. Ezúttal ügyeljen arra, hogy itt tartsa a kapcsolatot. Ha segítségre van szükségünk a szerencsejáték leállításához, akkor szintén fontos a helyreállítás fenntartása. Nem tudtam egyedül megállni, és nincs okom azt gondolni, hogy egyedül is megállhatok. Keepp közzététel.
charlesModeratorMuito bem, Izzy. Você já parou antes para saber que pode fazer isso de novo. Desta vez, certifique-se de manter contato aqui. Se precisarmos de ajuda para parar de jogar, também é importante manter a recuperação. Eu não conseguia parar por conta própria e não tenho motivos para pensar que também poderia ficar parado por conta própria. Continue postando.
charlesModeratorWell done Izzy,
You hae stopped before so you knw you can do it again. This time make sure you keep in touch here. If we need help to stop gambling then it is also important to maintain recovery. I couldn’t stop on my own and I have no reason to think I could stay stopped on my own either. Keepp posting.charlesModeratorਬਹੁਤ ਵਧੀਆ ਇਜ਼ੀ, ਤੁਸੀਂ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ ਹੀ ਰੁਕ ਗਏ ਸੀ ਇਸ ਲਈ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਜਾਣਦੇ ਹੋ ਕਿ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਸਨੂੰ ਦੁਬਾਰਾ ਕਰ ਸਕਦੇ ਹੋ. ਇਸ ਵਾਰ ਇਹ ਯਕੀਨੀ ਬਣਾਉ ਕਿ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇੱਥੇ ਸੰਪਰਕ ਵਿੱਚ ਰਹੋ. ਜੇ ਸਾਨੂੰ ਜੂਏ ਨੂੰ ਰੋਕਣ ਲਈ ਮਦਦ ਦੀ ਲੋੜ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਰਿਕਵਰੀ ਨੂੰ ਕਾਇਮ ਰੱਖਣਾ ਵੀ ਮਹੱਤਵਪੂਰਨ ਹੈ. ਮੈਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਨਹੀਂ ਰੁਕ ਸਕਦਾ ਅਤੇ ਮੇਰੇ ਕੋਲ ਇਹ ਸੋਚਣ ਦਾ ਕੋਈ ਕਾਰਨ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਮੈਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਵੀ ਰੁਕ ਸਕਦਾ ਹਾਂ. ਕੀਪ ਪੋਸਟਿੰਗ.
charlesModeratorGodt gjort Izzy, Du har stoppet før, så du vet at du kan gjøre det igjen. Denne gangen må du holde kontakten her. Hvis vi trenger hjelp til å stoppe gambling, er det også viktig å opprettholde restitusjonen. Jeg klarte ikke å stoppe på egen hånd, og jeg har ingen grunn til å tro at jeg kunne bli stoppet alene. Keepp -innlegg.
charlesModeratorDobrá práce, Izzy, zastavil jsi se předtím, takže víš, že to můžeš udělat znovu. Tentokrát se ujistěte, že zde zůstanete v kontaktu. Pokud potřebujeme pomoc s ukončením hazardních her, pak je také důležité udržovat zotavení. Nemohl jsem sám přestat a nemám důvod si myslet, že bych mohl zůstat zastavený sám. Keepp posting.
20 June 2019 at 8:13 pm in reply to: Saya telah kehilangan segalanya & sekarang hidup saya kosong #133617charlesModeratorBagus Izzy, Anda telah berhenti sebelumnya sehingga Anda tahu Anda bisa melakukannya lagi. Kali ini pastikan Anda tetap berhubungan di sini. Jika kita membutuhkan bantuan untuk menghentikan perjudian maka penting juga untuk menjaga pemulihan. Saya tidak bisa berhenti sendiri dan saya juga tidak punya alasan untuk berpikir bahwa saya bisa berhenti sendiri. Tetap posting.
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