[Steev]

Все още имам проблеми с чата – при стартиране и след това виждам само празен екран, когато се опитвам да вляза отново. Няколко други потребители казват същото. Това продължава вече седмици. Има ли някакво решение за това?

[Steev]

Mul on endiselt probleeme vestlusega – käivitatakse ja näen tühja ekraani alles siis, kui proovin uuesti sisse logida. Sama ütlevad mitmed teised kasutajad. See on kestnud juba nädalaid. Kas sellele on mingit lahendust?

[Steev]

Még mindig problémáim vannak a csevegéssel – elindul, és csak üres képernyő jelenik meg, amikor megpróbálok újra bejelentkezni. Több más felhasználó is ezt mondja. Ez már hetek óta tart. Van rá valami megoldás?

[Steev]

ਮੈਨੂੰ ਅਜੇ ਵੀ ਗੱਲਬਾਤ ਵਿੱਚ ਸਮੱਸਿਆ ਆ ਰਹੀ ਹੈ – ਬੂਟ ਆ beingਟ ਹੋਣਾ ਅਤੇ ਫਿਰ ਸਿਰਫ ਇੱਕ ਖਾਲੀ ਸਕ੍ਰੀਨ ਵੇਖਣਾ ਜਦੋਂ ਮੈਂ ਵਾਪਸ ਲੌਗ ਇਨ ਕਰਨ ਦੀ ਕੋਸ਼ਿਸ਼ ਕਰਦਾ ਹਾਂ. ਕਈ ਹੋਰ ਉਪਯੋਗਕਰਤਾ ਵੀ ਇਹੀ ਕਹਿ ਰਹੇ ਹਨ. ਇਹ ਹੁਣ ਹਫਤਿਆਂ ਤੋਂ ਚੱਲ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ. ਕੀ ਇਸਦਾ ਕੋਈ ਹੱਲ ਹੈ?

[Steev]

Încă am probleme cu chatul – sunt pornit și apoi văd un ecran gol doar când încerc să mă conectez din nou. Mai mulți alți utilizatori spun același lucru. Acest lucru se întâmplă de săptămâni în urmă. Există vreo soluție?

[Steev]

Stále mám problémy s chatem – byl jsem spuštěn a poté se mi při pokusu o přihlášení zobrazila pouze prázdná obrazovka. Několik dalších uživatelů říká totéž. To se děje už několik týdnů. Existuje na to nějaké řešení?

[Steev]

Ainda estou tendo problemas com o bate-papo – sendo inicializado e vendo apenas uma tela em branco quando tento fazer o login novamente. Vários outros usuários estão dizendo o mesmo. Isso já está acontecendo há semanas. Existe alguma solução para isso?

[Steev]

Jag har fortfarande problem med chatten – startas upp och ser sedan bara en tom skärm när jag försöker logga in igen. Flera andra användare säger samma sak. Detta har pågått i veckor nu. Finns det någon lösning på det?

[Steev]

Ainda estou tendo problemas com o bate-papo – sendo inicializado e vendo apenas uma tela em branco quando tento fazer o login novamente. Vários outros usuários estão dizendo o mesmo. Isso já dura semanas. Existe alguma solução para isso?

[Steev]

Għadni jkolli problemi bil-chat – qed nibda u mbagħad nara skrin vojt biss meta nipprova nidħol lura. Diversi utenti oħra qed jgħidu l-istess. Dan ilu għaddej għal ġimgħat issa. Hemm xi soluzzjoni għaliha?

[Steev]

Tôi vẫn gặp sự cố với trò chuyện – bị khởi động và sau đó chỉ thấy màn hình trống khi tôi cố gắng đăng nhập lại. Một số người dùng khác cũng nói như vậy. Điều này đã diễn ra trong nhiều tuần nay. Có giải pháp nào cho nó không?

[Steev]

Nadal mam problemy z czatem – wystartowałem i widzę pusty ekran tylko przy próbie ponownego zalogowania. Kilku innych użytkowników mówi to samo. Trwa to już od tygodni. Czy jest na to rozwiązanie?

[Steev]

Hi – we were in chat but I got kicked out and couldn’t log back in again.

Just to say that I think it is really important to try and establish some sort of dialogue with your husband. If you are in the UK – relate offer a life chat service on-line for individuals as well as couples who are having problems in their relationship. I think the link is relate . org .uk

You need some support in this – you sound very alone with it all. I know involving someone else is difficult because of the shame we all feel around our addiction – you need to look after yourself in all this.

[Steev]

Hi Graham, I worked as a counselor and have some training in CBT amongst other things.

I’m not sure what you need to know – have you a more specific question. As BEEM says CBT looks towards changing the thinking that you have which causes you to behave in the way you do. It may work well with guilt because it will try and unpack the thinking behind the guilt and see if that is “faulty.”

A lot of the success of therapy is in the giving of a safe space and time for people to talk about what is going on for them – and often the label of the therapy is less important than the rapport between the counselor and client. I wish you well.

[Steev]

Hi Ch07 – Firstly I think you would be better starting your own thread / journal – as this post may get missed here.

You need to get help with things – talk to people on here in groups or one-to-one, it will be difficult to do stuff on your own especially when you are so upset. Also get help locally, through your doctor or local self-help groups like GA or similar.

Also your husband may benefit from looking at and maybe posting on the friends and family forum here. The more he knows about your situation the more understanding he MAY be. Because it is not you who is a bad person here – it is your behaviour that has caused this mess and your behaviour can be changed.

Gamstop is a great starting point and if there are other things you can put in place, please do them. Can your husband handle your finances for you? Without money for gambling it is (virtually) impossible to do so. Also try and fill your time with things away from gambling and whatever triggers gambling for you.

Get some good financial advice about the debts – can the interest on the credit cards be stopped? Do what you can to make things better for yourself. Put as much time into your recovery and looking after you and your family as you used to put into gambling. I wish you well.

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