[Steev]

मुझे अभी भी चैट में समस्या हो रही है – बूट आउट होने के बाद और जब मैं वापस लॉग इन करने का प्रयास करता हूं तो केवल एक खाली स्क्रीन दिखाई देता है। कई अन्य उपयोगकर्ता भी ऐसा ही कह रहे हैं। यह अब हफ्तों से चल रहा है। क्या इसका कोई समाधान है?

[Steev]

Sto ancora riscontrando problemi con la chat: sono stato avviato e quindi vedo solo una schermata vuota quando provo ad accedere di nuovo. Diversi altri utenti stanno dicendo lo stesso. Questo va avanti da settimane ormai. C'è qualche soluzione?

[Steev]

У меня все еще возникают проблемы с чатом – я загружаюсь, а затем вижу только пустой экран, когда пытаюсь снова войти в систему. Несколько других пользователей говорят то же самое. Это продолжается уже несколько недель. Есть ли какое-то решение?

[Steev]

Jeg har stadig problemer med chat – at blive startet op og derefter kun se en tom skærm, når jeg prøver at logge ind igen. Flere andre brugere siger det samme. Dette har stået på i flere uger nu. Er der nogen løsning på det?

[Steev]

Vis dar turiu problemų dėl pokalbių – esu paleidžiamas ir tik tada matau tuščią ekraną, kai bandau vėl prisijungti. Tą patį sako keli kiti vartotojai. Tai tęsiasi jau kelias savaites. Ar yra koks nors sprendimas?

[Steev]

Εξακολουθώ να αντιμετωπίζω προβλήματα με τη συνομιλία – με εκκινεί και στη συνέχεια βλέπω μόνο μια κενή οθόνη όταν προσπαθώ να συνδεθώ ξανά. Αρκετοί άλλοι χρήστες λένε το ίδιο. Αυτό συμβαίνει εδώ και εβδομάδες. Υπάρχει κάποια λύση σε αυτό;

[Steev]

채팅에 여전히 문제가 있습니다. 부팅된 다음 다시 로그인하려고 할 때 빈 화면만 표시됩니다. 다른 여러 사용자도 마찬가지입니다. 이것은 몇 주 동안 계속되었습니다. 그것에 대한 해결책이 있습니까?

[Steev]

I am still having problems with chat – being booted out and then only seeing a blank screen when I try to log back in. Several other users are saying the same. This has been going on for weeks now. Is there any solution to it?

[Steev]

Man joprojām ir problēmas ar tērzēšanu – tiek sāknēts un pēc tam redzams tikai tukšs ekrāns, kad mēģinu atkal pieteikties. Vairāki citi lietotāji saka to pašu. Tas notiek jau vairākas nedēļas. Vai tam ir kāds risinājums?

[Steev]

Hala sohbetle ilgili sorunlar yaşıyorum – yeniden başlatılıyor ve ardından tekrar oturum açmaya çalıştığımda yalnızca boş bir ekran görüyorum. Birkaç başka kullanıcı da aynı şeyi söylüyor. Bu haftalardır devam ediyor. Bunun bir çözümü var mı?

[Steev]

Все още имам проблеми с чата – при стартиране и след това виждам само празен екран, когато се опитвам да вляза отново. Няколко други потребители казват същото. Това продължава вече седмици. Има ли някакво решение за това?

[Steev]

Mul on endiselt probleeme vestlusega – käivitatakse ja näen tühja ekraani alles siis, kui proovin uuesti sisse logida. Sama ütlevad mitmed teised kasutajad. See on kestnud juba nädalaid. Kas sellele on mingit lahendust?

[Steev]

Hi – we were in chat but I got kicked out and couldn’t log back in again.

Just to say that I think it is really important to try and establish some sort of dialogue with your husband. If you are in the UK – relate offer a life chat service on-line for individuals as well as couples who are having problems in their relationship. I think the link is relate . org .uk

You need some support in this – you sound very alone with it all. I know involving someone else is difficult because of the shame we all feel around our addiction – you need to look after yourself in all this.

[Steev]

Hi Graham, I worked as a counselor and have some training in CBT amongst other things.

I’m not sure what you need to know – have you a more specific question. As BEEM says CBT looks towards changing the thinking that you have which causes you to behave in the way you do. It may work well with guilt because it will try and unpack the thinking behind the guilt and see if that is “faulty.”

A lot of the success of therapy is in the giving of a safe space and time for people to talk about what is going on for them – and often the label of the therapy is less important than the rapport between the counselor and client. I wish you well.

[Steev]

Hi Ch07 – Firstly I think you would be better starting your own thread / journal – as this post may get missed here.

You need to get help with things – talk to people on here in groups or one-to-one, it will be difficult to do stuff on your own especially when you are so upset. Also get help locally, through your doctor or local self-help groups like GA or similar.

Also your husband may benefit from looking at and maybe posting on the friends and family forum here. The more he knows about your situation the more understanding he MAY be. Because it is not you who is a bad person here – it is your behaviour that has caused this mess and your behaviour can be changed.

Gamstop is a great starting point and if there are other things you can put in place, please do them. Can your husband handle your finances for you? Without money for gambling it is (virtually) impossible to do so. Also try and fill your time with things away from gambling and whatever triggers gambling for you.

Get some good financial advice about the debts – can the interest on the credit cards be stopped? Do what you can to make things better for yourself. Put as much time into your recovery and looking after you and your family as you used to put into gambling. I wish you well.

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