[Steev]

Tôi vẫn gặp sự cố với trò chuyện – bị khởi động và sau đó chỉ thấy màn hình trống khi tôi cố gắng đăng nhập lại. Một số người dùng khác cũng nói như vậy. Điều này đã diễn ra trong nhiều tuần nay. Có giải pháp nào cho nó không?

[Steev]

Nadal mam problemy z czatem – wystartowałem i widzę pusty ekran tylko przy próbie ponownego zalogowania. Kilku innych użytkowników mówi to samo. Trwa to już od tygodni. Czy jest na to rozwiązanie?

[Steev]

Minulla on edelleen ongelmia chatin kanssa – minut käynnistetään ja näen tyhjän näytön vasta, kun yritän kirjautua sisään sisään. Useat muut käyttäjät sanovat samaa. Tätä on jatkunut nyt viikkoja. Onko siihen mitään ratkaisua?

[Steev]

ما زلت أواجه مشاكل مع الدردشة – يتم إقلاعي ثم أرى شاشة فارغة فقط عندما أحاول تسجيل الدخول مرة أخرى. العديد من المستخدمين الآخرين يقولون نفس الشيء. هذا مستمر منذ أسابيع. هل هناك أي حل لها؟

[Steev]

У мене все ще виникають проблеми з чатом – завантажуючись, а потім я бачу порожній екран, коли я намагаюся знову увійти. Кілька інших користувачів говорять те саме. Це триває вже кілька тижнів. Чи є в цьому якесь рішення?

[Steev]

I dalje imam problema s chatom – pokretanjem sustava, a tek kad se pokušam prijaviti vidim samo prazan zaslon. Nekoliko drugih korisnika govori isto. Ovo traje već tjednima. Ima li za to rješenja?

[Steev]

Ik heb nog steeds problemen met chatten – ik word opgestart en zie dan alleen een leeg scherm wanneer ik me opnieuw probeer aan te melden. Verschillende andere gebruikers zeggen hetzelfde. Dit is nu al weken aan de gang. Is er een oplossing voor?

[Steev]

Ich habe immer noch Probleme mit dem Chat – ich werde gebootet und sehe dann nur einen leeren Bildschirm, wenn ich versuche, mich wieder einzuloggen. Mehrere andere Benutzer sagen dasselbe. Das geht schon seit Wochen so. Gibt es eine Lösung dafür?

[Steev]

Sigo teniendo problemas con el chat: me arrancan y solo veo una pantalla en blanco cuando intento volver a iniciar sesión. Varios otros usuarios dicen lo mismo. Esto ha estado sucediendo durante semanas. ¿Hay alguna solución para eso?

[Steev]

チャットでまだ問題が発生しています。起動してから、再度ログインしようとすると空白の画面しか表示されません。他の何人かのユーザーが同じことを言っています。これは何週間も続いています。それに対する解決策はありますか？

[Steev]

مجھے اب بھی چیٹ میں مسائل درپیش ہیں – بوٹ آؤٹ ہونا اور پھر صرف خالی سکرین دیکھنا جب میں واپس لاگ ان کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہوں۔ کئی دوسرے صارفین بھی یہی کہہ رہے ہیں۔ یہ ہفتوں سے جاری ہے۔ کیا اس کا کوئی حل ہے؟

[Steev]

Jeg har fortsatt problemer med chat – blir startet opp og ser bare en tom skjerm når jeg prøver å logge inn igjen. Flere andre brukere sier det samme. Dette har pågått i flere uker nå. Er det noen løsning på det?

[Steev]

Hi – we were in chat but I got kicked out and couldn’t log back in again.

Just to say that I think it is really important to try and establish some sort of dialogue with your husband. If you are in the UK – relate offer a life chat service on-line for individuals as well as couples who are having problems in their relationship. I think the link is relate . org .uk

You need some support in this – you sound very alone with it all. I know involving someone else is difficult because of the shame we all feel around our addiction – you need to look after yourself in all this.

[Steev]

Hi Graham, I worked as a counselor and have some training in CBT amongst other things.

I’m not sure what you need to know – have you a more specific question. As BEEM says CBT looks towards changing the thinking that you have which causes you to behave in the way you do. It may work well with guilt because it will try and unpack the thinking behind the guilt and see if that is “faulty.”

A lot of the success of therapy is in the giving of a safe space and time for people to talk about what is going on for them – and often the label of the therapy is less important than the rapport between the counselor and client. I wish you well.

[Steev]

Hi Ch07 – Firstly I think you would be better starting your own thread / journal – as this post may get missed here.

You need to get help with things – talk to people on here in groups or one-to-one, it will be difficult to do stuff on your own especially when you are so upset. Also get help locally, through your doctor or local self-help groups like GA or similar.

Also your husband may benefit from looking at and maybe posting on the friends and family forum here. The more he knows about your situation the more understanding he MAY be. Because it is not you who is a bad person here – it is your behaviour that has caused this mess and your behaviour can be changed.

Gamstop is a great starting point and if there are other things you can put in place, please do them. Can your husband handle your finances for you? Without money for gambling it is (virtually) impossible to do so. Also try and fill your time with things away from gambling and whatever triggers gambling for you.

Get some good financial advice about the debts – can the interest on the credit cards be stopped? Do what you can to make things better for yourself. Put as much time into your recovery and looking after you and your family as you used to put into gambling. I wish you well.

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