[Steev]

Znam da ste daleko dogurali … ne samo od prestanka kockanja – već i od vjerovanja u sebe. Sada samo prijeđite na sljedeću prekretnicu … tj. 6 mjeseci i 1 dan! Čuvaj se.

[Steev]

Jeg vet at du har kommet langt … ikke bare fra å stoppe gambling – men også i å tro på deg selv. Bare fortsett nå til neste milepæl … dvs. 6 måneder og 1 dag! Ta godt vare på deg selv.

[Steev]

Sadece kumarı bırakma konusunda değil, aynı zamanda kendinize inanma konusunda da uzun bir yol kat ettiğinizi biliyorum. Şimdi bir sonraki kilometre taşına geçin… yani 6 ay 1 gün! Kendine iyi bak.

[Steev]

Eu sei que você percorreu um longo caminho … não apenas para parar de jogar – mas também para acreditar em si mesmo. Basta avançar agora para a próxima etapa … ou seja, 6 meses e 1 dia! Cuide bem de você.

[Steev]

Tudom, hogy hosszú utat tett meg … nem csak abból, hogy abbahagyja a szerencsejátékot – hanem abban is, hogy hisz önmagában. Csak lépjen tovább a következő mérföldkőhöz … azaz 6 hónap és 1 nap! Vigyázzon magára.

[Steev]

Je sais que vous avez parcouru un long chemin… pas seulement en arrêtant de jouer – mais aussi en croyant en vous-même. Passez maintenant à l'étape suivante… c'est-à-dire 6 mois et 1 jour ! Prend bien soin de toi.

[Steev]

So che hai fatto molta strada… non solo per smettere di giocare d'azzardo, ma anche per credere in te stesso. Basta passare ora al prossimo traguardo… cioè 6 mesi e 1 giorno! Prendersi cura di voi stessi.

[Steev]

Știu că ai parcurs un drum lung … nu doar de la oprirea jocurilor de noroc – ci și de la a crede în tine. Treceți acum la următoarea etapă … adică 6 luni și 1 zi! Să ai grijă de tine.

[Steev]

Ξέρω ότι έχετε κάνει πολύ δρόμο … όχι μόνο από το να σταματήσετε τα τυχερά παιχνίδια – αλλά και να πιστέψετε στον εαυτό σας. Απλώς προχωρήστε τώρα στο επόμενο ορόσημο … δηλαδή 6 μήνες και 1 ημέρα! Φρόντισε καλα τον εαύτο σου.

[Steev]

I know you have come a long way … not just from stopping gambling – but also in believing in yourself. Just push on now to the next milestone … i.e. 6 months and 1 day!

Take good care of yourself.

[Steev]

Ik weet dat je een lange weg hebt afgelegd … niet alleen door te stoppen met gokken – maar ook door in jezelf te geloven. Ga nu gewoon door naar de volgende mijlpaal … dwz 6 maanden en 1 dag! Zorg goed voor jezelf.

[Steev]

私はあなたが長い道のりを歩んできたことを知っています…ギャンブルをやめることからだけでなく、自分自身を信じることからも。今すぐ次のマイルストーンに進んでください…つまり、6か月と1日です！体に気をつけてください。

[Steev]

It is so good to hear that you are doing well and that you have gone back to a previous passion. I really think that we need to remember what our lives were like before gambling and either pick up the things we let go of – or realise the dreams that we had then. In my case travelling, in yours angling …
I’m also glad to see that the counseling is helping you and that the family support is starting to kick in. Such a more positive post than your OP and the one you wrote on April 1st. Keep strong!

[Steev]

Awful that your bank account has been hacked.  I know I worry about it as I bank on-line which is very convenient for me whilst I am travelling, but I am aware that I am vulnerable because I am out of the country where my bank is, most of the time.

I hope you have been able to sort things out and that not too much damage was done.

Great that you were able to keep calm and sort it – and didn’t feel the need to blot it out of your mind by gambling!

It sounds like your Granddaughter is growing up and is enjoying what life is giving her.  Make the most of your time with her … it is precious. 

[Steev]

It sounds like you are getting into that period where you feel the normal of “not gambling” is somehow “boring” and your brain is craving for the “excitement” of the highs and lows of being in action.  I know when I slipped in the past – it was due to my behaviour telling me that I can be a “normal” gambler – and that the odd play on the machines once in a while wouldn’t do me any harm.

It never stopped at the “odd play” though – and even after a single session I was thinking about where I can get more money from, how can I maximise my payouts, when will I be able to get back on, my mind churning over and over.  Yes I was no longer bored – but I was now suffering from those worry thoughts that took lots of work to put behind me.

I had to embrace the “boring” and see it as peace and contentment instead, watching for and delighting in the subtle, simple things in life that I missed when I was caught up in gambling action. 

I am sure you will hold firm and not give in to the gambling thoughts – but if you need back up, just give people on here a shout.  Take good care of yourself.

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