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  • in reply to: nauja pradžia #89307
    joerdj
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    O gal tai nėra nė vienas iš aukščiau išvardytų dalykų, galėčiau pacituoti beprotybės apibrėžimą, bet šį kartą to nedarysiu. Trumpi pinigų terminai nieko nereiškia, kai eikvojate juos kitai prekybai. Pirmiausia kuriam laikui sustabdykite tai, ką darote, tada ieškokite atsakymų. Jūs galite tai įveikti.

    in reply to: 新たなスタート #92045
    joerdj
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    あるいは、上記のどれでもないかもしれません。狂気の定義を引用することはできますが、今回はそれを行いません。あなたがあなたの次の取引でそれを無駄にするとき、お金の短期は何の意味もありません。まず、あなたがしていることをしばらく止めてから、答えを探してください。あなたはこれを打ち負かすことができます。

    in reply to: taze başlangıç #96556
    joerdj
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    Ya da belki yukarıdakilerin hiçbiri değildir, deliliğin tanımını verebilirim ama bu sefer bunu yapmayacağım. Para kısa terimleri, bir sonraki ticaretinizde boşa harcadığınızda hiçbir şey ifade etmez. Önce yaptığınız işi bir süre durdurun, sonra cevaplar arayın. Bunu yenebilirsin.

    in reply to: novo começo #98704
    joerdj
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    Ou talvez não seja nenhuma das opções acima, eu poderia citar a definição de insanidade, mas não vou fazer isso desta vez. Prazos curtos de dinheiro não significam nada quando você o desperdiça em sua próxima negociação. Primeiro, pare o que está fazendo por um tempo e depois busque as respostas. Você pode vencer isso.

    in reply to: تازہ آغاز #129147
    joerdj
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    یا شاید یہ مندرجہ بالا میں سے کوئی نہیں ہے ، میں پاگل پن کی تعریف کا حوالہ دے سکتا ہوں ، لیکن میں اس بار ایسا نہیں کروں گا۔ پیسے کی مختصر شرائط کا کوئی مطلب نہیں جب آپ اسے اپنی اگلی تجارت پر ضائع کردیں۔ پہلے ، جو کچھ آپ کر رہے ہیں اسے تھوڑی دیر کے لیے روکیں ، پھر جوابات تلاش کریں۔ آپ اسے شکست دے سکتے ہیں۔

    in reply to: värske algus #101628
    joerdj
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    Või äkki pole see midagi ülaltoodust, võiksin tsiteerida hullumeelsuse definitsiooni, kuid seekord ma seda ei tee. Raha lühikesed tähtajad ei tähenda midagi, kui raiskate selle oma järgmisele tehingule. Kõigepealt lõpetage mõneks ajaks see, mida teete, ja seejärel otsige vastuseid. Sa võid seda võita.

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52825
    joerdj
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    Sorry to say but I always find that xyz program is very expensive a useless argument. We wasted ridiculous amounts of money in slots, and a program that can prevent that is always cheaper then waste your money again. 

    Anyway try : https://betblocker.org/

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52818
    joerdj
    Participant

    I was also thinking of the why. Why me why not someone else why why why. But all these questions, even if I get an answer, won’t change anything to the situation I’m in now.

    What you are seeking is rational answers to something that is not rational. Even if there was a reason, would it matter for the situation you are in now?  This is your brain trying to rationalize its own behavior (cognitive dissonance).

    Your brain is a complicated thing, but basically you have a primitive brain and the thinking brain. With this and more situations those are in a struggle with each other. Your primitive part is driven by emotions, the rational part by reason.

    Hence when you place a bet, your primitive brain wins the battle from your rational brain. When the high is over your rational brain is back in action and you think why why why. 

    In no way I’m trying to say you should not pursue your quest for answers, just don’t forget you live in the now. 

    in reply to: Day 30 #54794
    joerdj
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    Well, tomorrow my salary will hit my account.
    Normally I would sleep very poorly the day before. Just because of being restless and wanting to place a bet.

    Hopefully, this night will be better. Still gambling free for 48 days. I have decided to give myself a present when I hit 100 days.

    So to do that I will, from the 50-day mark onwards, save 2 euro a day, so when the 100 days are due I can buy myself the present.

    I still have money leftover from my last salary, so that’s for the first time in a while.

    On to the 50 days and onwards

    in reply to: 30 день #123244
    joerdj
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    Что ж, завтра моя зарплата поступит на мой счет. Обычно я очень плохо спал накануне. Просто из-за беспокойства и желания сделать ставку. Надеюсь, эта ночь будет лучше. По-прежнему играть бесплатно в течение 48 дней. Я решил сделать себе подарок, когда мне исполнится 100 дней. Для этого, начиная с 50-дневной отметки, я буду экономить 2 евро в день, так что когда истечет 100 дней, я смогу купить себе подарок. У меня все еще остались деньги от моей последней зарплаты, так что это впервые за долгое время. До 50 дней и далее

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7088
    joerdj
    Participant

    Hi sunflower,

    How did the counselling go if I may ask ?

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54841
    joerdj
    Participant

    What bills are urgent? It look like the freezing of your account will be inevitable, but you say you have the necessities. I am i bit confused right now.  Could you clarify further what the exact problem will be if they freeze your account if you can still pay for food. Is it about losing a place to sleep ? 

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7086
    joerdj
    Participant

    I think the therapist wants to do harm reduction because you are at the moment bound to each other with the lockdown going on. In that sense, I can understand that maybe this is “better”.

    You have tried everything and he is lucky to have you at your side. As long as you keep your own finances and health safe.

    I wish you all the best 

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54838
    joerdj
    Participant

    How is it going Ivan?

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7084
    joerdj
    Participant

    Hi Sunflower 

    Please keep positive and keep posting!

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