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  • in reply to: fresh start #54890
    joerdj
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    Or maybe it is none of the above, I could quote the definition of insanity, but I won’t do that this time.

    Money short terms mean nothing when you waste it on your next trade.

    First, stop what you are doing for a while, then seek for answers.

    You can beat this.

    in reply to: uusi alku #90351
    joerdj
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    Tai ehkä se ei ole mikään yllä olevista, voisin lainata hulluuden määritelmää, mutta en tee sitä tällä kertaa. Rahan lyhyet termit eivät merkitse mitään, kun tuhlaat sen seuraavaan kauppaasi. Lopeta ensin tekemäsi hetkeksi ja etsi vastauksia. Voit voittaa tämän.

    in reply to: nouveau départ #92213
    joerdj
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    Ou peut-être que ce n'est rien de ce qui précède, je pourrais citer la définition de la folie, mais je ne le ferai pas cette fois. L'argent à court terme ne signifie rien lorsque vous le gaspillez lors de votre prochaine transaction. Tout d'abord, arrêtez ce que vous faites pendant un moment, puis cherchez des réponses. Vous pouvez battre ça.

    in reply to: sự khởi đầu mới #97491
    joerdj
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    Hoặc có thể nó không phải là điều ở trên, tôi có thể trích dẫn định nghĩa của sự điên rồ, nhưng tôi sẽ không làm điều đó lần này. Tiền ngắn hạn chẳng có nghĩa lý gì khi bạn lãng phí nó cho lần giao dịch tiếp theo. Đầu tiên, hãy dừng việc bạn đang làm trong một thời gian, sau đó tìm kiếm câu trả lời. Bạn có thể đánh bại điều này.

    in reply to: ny start #100180
    joerdj
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    Eller måske er det ikke noget af det ovenstående, jeg kunne citere definitionen på sindssyge, men det vil jeg ikke gøre denne gang. Pengekort betyder ikke noget, når du spilder det på din næste handel. Først skal du stoppe med det, du laver i et stykke tid, og derefter søge efter svar. Du kan slå dette.

    in reply to: nuevo comienzo #103527
    joerdj
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    O tal vez no sea nada de lo anterior, podría citar la definición de locura, pero no lo haré esta vez. Los plazos cortos de dinero no significan nada cuando lo desperdicias en tu próxima operación. Primero, detén lo que estás haciendo por un tiempo y luego busca respuestas. Puedes vencer esto.

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52825
    joerdj
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    Sorry to say but I always find that xyz program is very expensive a useless argument. We wasted ridiculous amounts of money in slots, and a program that can prevent that is always cheaper then waste your money again. 

    Anyway try : https://betblocker.org/

    in reply to: I need advice and help #52818
    joerdj
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    I was also thinking of the why. Why me why not someone else why why why. But all these questions, even if I get an answer, won’t change anything to the situation I’m in now.

    What you are seeking is rational answers to something that is not rational. Even if there was a reason, would it matter for the situation you are in now?  This is your brain trying to rationalize its own behavior (cognitive dissonance).

    Your brain is a complicated thing, but basically you have a primitive brain and the thinking brain. With this and more situations those are in a struggle with each other. Your primitive part is driven by emotions, the rational part by reason.

    Hence when you place a bet, your primitive brain wins the battle from your rational brain. When the high is over your rational brain is back in action and you think why why why. 

    In no way I’m trying to say you should not pursue your quest for answers, just don’t forget you live in the now. 

    in reply to: 30 день #123244
    joerdj
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    Что ж, завтра моя зарплата поступит на мой счет. Обычно я очень плохо спал накануне. Просто из-за беспокойства и желания сделать ставку. Надеюсь, эта ночь будет лучше. По-прежнему играть бесплатно в течение 48 дней. Я решил сделать себе подарок, когда мне исполнится 100 дней. Для этого, начиная с 50-дневной отметки, я буду экономить 2 евро в день, так что когда истечет 100 дней, я смогу купить себе подарок. У меня все еще остались деньги от моей последней зарплаты, так что это впервые за долгое время. До 50 дней и далее

    in reply to: Day 30 #54794
    joerdj
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    Well, tomorrow my salary will hit my account.
    Normally I would sleep very poorly the day before. Just because of being restless and wanting to place a bet.

    Hopefully, this night will be better. Still gambling free for 48 days. I have decided to give myself a present when I hit 100 days.

    So to do that I will, from the 50-day mark onwards, save 2 euro a day, so when the 100 days are due I can buy myself the present.

    I still have money leftover from my last salary, so that’s for the first time in a while.

    On to the 50 days and onwards

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7088
    joerdj
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    Hi sunflower,

    How did the counselling go if I may ask ?

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54841
    joerdj
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    What bills are urgent? It look like the freezing of your account will be inevitable, but you say you have the necessities. I am i bit confused right now.  Could you clarify further what the exact problem will be if they freeze your account if you can still pay for food. Is it about losing a place to sleep ? 

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7086
    joerdj
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    I think the therapist wants to do harm reduction because you are at the moment bound to each other with the lockdown going on. In that sense, I can understand that maybe this is “better”.

    You have tried everything and he is lucky to have you at your side. As long as you keep your own finances and health safe.

    I wish you all the best 

    in reply to: Trying to save my life #54838
    joerdj
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    How is it going Ivan?

    in reply to: He relapsed and I feel disappointed/ashamed/confused #7084
    joerdj
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    Hi Sunflower 

    Please keep positive and keep posting!

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