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  • in reply to: I’m not giving up! #40239
    i-did-it
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    Hi Lizbeth ,
    Great post – we aren’t responsible for anyone else’s behaviour – but it can still hurt us ! There is never any need to drag children into adult arguments or to use them as a pawns.
    Your life seems to be going really well despite your daugher’s behaviour- going to church lifts our spirits and it is great to see old friends . Loving ourselves is easy when life is going well but harder when there are bumps along the way – keep strong !

    in reply to: 私はあきらめていませんよ! #127421
    i-did-it
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    こんにちはリズベス、素晴らしい投稿-私たちは他人の行動に責任を負いません-しかしそれでも私たちを傷つける可能性があります!子供を大人の議論に引きずり込んだり、ポーンとして使用したりする必要はありません。あなたの娘の行動にもかかわらず、あなたの人生は本当にうまくいっているようです-教会に行くことは私たちの精神を高め、古い友達に会うのは素晴らしいことです。人生が順調に進んでいるときは自分自身を愛することは簡単ですが、途中でバンプがあるときは難しくなります-強くしてください!

    in reply to: Eu não estou desistindo! #135569
    i-did-it
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    Oi Lizbeth, Excelente postagem – não somos responsáveis pelo comportamento de ninguém – mas ainda pode nos prejudicar! Nunca há necessidade de arrastar as crianças para as discussões dos adultos ou usá-las como peões. Sua vida parece estar indo muito bem, apesar do comportamento de sua filha – ir à igreja levanta nosso ânimo e é ótimo ver velhos amigos. Amar a nós mesmos é fácil quando a vida está indo bem, mas é mais difícil quando há obstáculos ao longo do caminho – mantenha-se firme!

    in reply to: Jien ma naqtax qalbi! #109574
    i-did-it
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    Hello Lizbeth, Kariga mill-aqwa – m'aħniex responsabbli għall-imġieba ta 'ħaddieħor – iżda xorta tista' tweġġagħna! Qatt m'hemm bżonn li t-tfal jitkaxkru f'argumenti għall-adulti jew li jintużaw bħala pedini. Ħajtek tidher li sejra tassew tajjeb minkejja l-imġieba ta 'l-aħwa tiegħek – li tmur il-knisja tgħolli l-ispirti tagħna u huwa sabiħ li tara ħbieb antiki. Li nħobbu lilna nfusna huwa faċli meta l-ħajja sejra tajjeb imma iktar diffiċli meta jkun hemm ħotob matul it-triq – żomm qawwi!

    in reply to: 888 refund #42032
    i-did-it
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    Xmas shopping !!

    in reply to: A New Chapter Project 60 #33762
    i-did-it
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    Amen – delighted to read this post .
    Keep strong Micky – it’s a hard auld struggle !

    in reply to: I was here #36357
    i-did-it
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    Hi Laura – hope you had a great shopping trip – it’s going to be a great Christmas for you

    in reply to: How do I tell my partner about what I’ve done! #39569
    i-did-it
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    What a comeback Tina – you have sought help with your debts, you have been creative with Christmas presents and you have built up a solid amount of gamble free time.
    Sounds like you are doing really well!

    in reply to: Day 1 Starts Tomorrow #35393
    i-did-it
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    Brilliant Johnny ! Super example to us all- any more shopping?

    in reply to: The way of a fool is right in his own eyes #41991
    i-did-it
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    Thank you Laura for such a lovely post-
    It’s strikes me as strange that someone can take the time to write such a thoughtful and complimentary post and we simply say thank you and move on.

    Yet when someone behaves towards us in a hurtful way we remember it forever -why can’t we move on then ?

    Tonight as I pondered this question i realised there are so many things that will hurt us more deeply than words -life can throw some very cruel things at us and probably most of us have experienced things like this .

    I guess I’m saying nobody died –
    I will be ok.
    I can move on.
    I have forgiven
    …I struggle with forgetting (character fault 467 lol)

    i-did-it
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    Aw khuram .
    I feel so sad for you and I can empathise because I have been there myself too often.
    The only thing I can advise is to set every barrier you can think of so u simply cannot gamble -a thing I used to do was tape bank cards under the top surface of my desk in work -then when I went home i didn’t have them to use
    Well done on self banning – and yes it’s a great idea to self ban from the bookies.

    in reply to: The way of a fool is right in his own eyes #41989
    i-did-it
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    Laura , I am trying to move on .
    I appreciate your support .
    I don’t want anyone to have to feel they need to take sides
    But some comments which were made were just too hurtful and unnecessary and are difficult to forget – but who knows

    Have to hand it to Geordie – he can argue forever but isn’t harsh or unkind !
    I will chat to you in group – u are a great person – u have been even and balanced in your views and are well loved on here !

    in reply to: The second 100 days #39839
    i-did-it
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    Missing my mate but know when I am feeling relaxed and happy I never think about GT so am taking your absence as a really good sign .

    in reply to: Jeg gir meg ikke! #131144
    i-did-it
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    På jobb så bare tid for et raskt innlegg. Lizbeth har ofte skrevet at vi ikke blir kjent med menneskene her, men noen ganger blir vi kanskje bedre kjent med dem enn i virkeligheten. Jeg kan for eksempel se den absolutte kjærligheten du har til dine barnebarn – og dere barn for den saks skyld. Vi liker ikke alltid familien vår, men det betyr ikke at vi ikke elsker dem. Denne nye tråden var en god idé! Det føles som en ny start for deg!

    in reply to: Jien ma naqtax qalbi! #117274
    i-did-it
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    Fix-xogħol hekk ħin biss għal post ta 'malajr. Lizbeth spiss ktibt li aħna ma nsiru nafu n-nies ta 'hawn imma xi kultant forsi nsiru nafuhom aħjar milli fil-ħajja reali. Nista 'għal eżempji nara l-imħabba assoluta li għandek għan-neputijiet tiegħek – u intom it-tfal għal dik il-kwistjoni. Mhux dejjem inħobbu l-familja tagħna iżda dan ma jfissirx li ma nħobbuxhom. Dan il-ħajt il-ġdid kien idea kbira! Tħoss bħal bidu ġdid għalik!

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