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Day#5,
still depressed but it is fading, maybe I will be back to normal in a week or two.

2 days ago at my lowest point in this recovery trial, I read the posts that I wrote earlier after each relapse, it is full of pain, I got the idea to snapshot all these post with the post date and combine all of them I may need few pages I guess, I have relapsed many times, then I will print it out and bast it to the wall to remember daily all the pain that this addiction gave me, it could help me to overcome the urges once these withdrawal symptoms are gone.

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Day#4,
well, yesterday was a tough day mentally, I was so depressed, just I lay on my bed and watch a video after video about addiction. read some articles as well about addiction and recovery, until I calmed down after 8 or 9 hrs.

Of the many videos that I watched yesterday a video about Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) draws my attention below is a link describing it

this is very informative if you know nothing about it google it or watch the Video it is good to be aware of it.

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damn, I need this F day to end, I am feeling down, how did I dig this deep hole. how this addiction pulls me back to it time and time again.
I have been here many times, full of hopes and motivation to start over but damn I can’t see any light in this tunnel this time, and how many days this recovery will last? a week? a month? then I will forget all this pain and back to gambling!!
I am terrified today I had some thoughts about trading !!! I have relapsed 2 days ago!! and all the pain is still fresh in my mind, and I got these thoughts about trading this is too f early !! what will happen after a few weeks??

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Jcp,
As losingitslowly mentioned. reading your post it was like I had wrote it myself.
I can’t really give you an advise because i am like you still struggling. But you are not alone and many in this forum achived it. And we should keep trying.

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Day#3.
Depressed to the max. Really in a very bad mood. The hopes that conmes with trading “gambling” are gone. and i am back to my real life trying to close every hole in this sinking ship and there are alot of holes.
It is my only life and i refuse to looset to this addiction. When i will go i need to be broued that i have tried my best what passed is passed and i can’t do any thing to change it what is important ia now and the future.
I need just a normal f life no big hopes or dreams but it seems even living a normal life is a big goal to achieve.

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Day#2,
after a lot of thinking I have applied an additional road blocker that I think it will make a huge difference,
for the last 8 months what facilitate my relapse was the P2P option in the broker account, I just need to do an instant wire transfer and the cryptocurrency will be in my account within 5 min, in forex I manage to control it by scratching all the cards to prevent the online deposit and it works for crypto as well until I figured out this P2P option.
I have 4 accounts in different banks, two banks of them are very slow to add beneficiaries, and the wire transfer it will take 24hr so this will not be visible for P2P transactions. I am going to close one of the other two, and I have changed the password for the last account so I will be able only to withdraw money at the branch “I can’t close it because I have a loan with them”.
now I have a really good gap between me and access to the online broker.

I am really happy about this new roadblock and I wonder why I didn’t think about it before. I could have saved a lot of money and time that has been wasted on this addiction.

I know it is not a final solution but it is a good step ahead.

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Day#1 again.
it is a small slip that didn’t impact me much but it is a slip. and I need to be honest with myself so it is day#1 again.

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Day#10
2 digits again

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Day#9.
payday passed safely. focused at work today I will start going to GYM again.
overall in good mood.

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hi,
there is always hope, life is so precious, refuse to be defeated and keep trying to recover till the last day of your life regardless of how many times you relapsed and how bad is your life. because I know something for sure is the count of your gambling days is going up your life will get better and better.

in regards to GOD, to be honest I am an atheist so there is no one up there controlling me or supporting me, or punishing me in life or after. I am on my own and this is librating me, what I am doing is my own responsibility, my recovery is my own responsibility. don’t wait for a magic solution you are on your own and you should get as much real support as you can from friends, family GA ..etc. I am not asking you to be an atheist just I am telling you the problem is not up in the sky it is down in you and you have to sort it out.

stay away from investing or trading it is gambling in fact this is what I am addicted to.

I hope you all the best, keep posting and work on your recovery every day, every day free of gambling is a day toward a better future.

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Day#6
tomorrow is payday, the demons start popping up in my mind, and my mood completely changed today, I was motivated to work and focused on recovery, and today I was distracted thinking about trade ideas and how I could put some amount tomorrow to trade “gamble”.
my roadblocks should save me tomorrow.

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Day#5,
one more day in recovery,

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Day#4,
it was one of the good days, I was completely focused at work, my mood is good, and motivated.

Hi Kin,
I am thinking about your post, and to say it moderately I didn’t get it and it sounds religious to me and I really have an issue with these religious-based views. yes, I love money, I love attention, and that makes me a normal human being who likes to be financially independent, who like to progress in life and achieve his best in life and I don’t see any issue with that.
the problem is the way that I chose to achieve that, I have tried to do it through day trading, and that progresses to a gambling-like behavior.

the fact having extra money on hand is a trigger to me as to many others who are addicted to gambling. and this is what I have mentioned about payday being a trigger to me.

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congratulations G Rec, I see you crossed the one-year mark, you are doing really well, keep it up.

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hi Jvr3419, thanks for the blunt answer which is the right answer, I shouldn’t hide it, but I have to overcome this addiction first and once it is part of my past and I am in peace with that past then I will be ready for that move.

DAY#3, one day at a time, my payday is close which is a huge trigger to relapse, but I am prepared for that.

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