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Hi Rosey,
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nI saw your thread heading and had lots to tell you. Then I looked at what you have written and you are doing a lot of it already, well done.
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nGet your bariers in place, read the other threads here and see the thigns that have worked for others. For that “extra cash” accountability can help; so you can’t gambel secretly, so you can’t access gambling funds so easily.
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nThe most important thing is to keep using support, none of us can do it on our own. You are also right to start putting thigns in place NOW. Waiting till payday is often too late to take action. Keep posting.Hi Kolberg,
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nSo you are lucky your friend isn’t gambling at the moment?
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nMake your own luck. We don’t have to have the strength to turn down gambling invites – if we tell our friends that we have decided to stop gambling then we wont get those invites! 🙂
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nUp to you if you tell them anything about your problem but I would say it is important to tell them that you no longer gamble, otherwise those invites will keep coming. Lot’s of people don’t gamble or stop gambling for lots of reasons.
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nDraw the line. Don’t make any “I can’t come this week because……” excuses or there is no reason for them to not ask you the next time. “I don’t gamble” stops the invites. “I’m not interested” stops the gambling conversations.
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nIt would also be a good idea to exclude from the casino that your friends usually go to.Great post, thanks Joe B. You deserve your success.
Hallo Steph, goed gedaan met je gokvrije tijd. n nAls het op de opmerkingen van je man aankomt, helpt het vaak om het ermee eens te zijn!! Iets in de trant van….. nn"Ja, ik heb het verprutst!! We kunnen het verleden niet veranderen. Maar nu doe ik x,y en z om dingen aan te pakken. Is er iets anders dat we nu kunnen doen ?" n nMoeilijk om een discussie gaande te houden als iemand het met je eens is. n nBlijf sterk in het weekend.
ਹੈਲੋ ਸਟੀਫ, ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਜੂਏ ਦੇ ਖਾਲੀ ਸਮੇਂ ਤੇ ਵਧੀਆ ਕੀਤਾ. n ਜਦੋਂ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਪਤੀ ਦੀ ਟਿੱਪਣੀਆਂ ਦੀ ਗੱਲ ਅਕਸਰ ਆਉਂਦੀ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਇਹ ਸਹਿਮਤ ਹੋਣ ਵਿੱਚ ਸਹਾਇਤਾ ਕਰਦੀ ਹੈ !! ਕੁਝ ਅਜਿਹਾ ….. nn "ਹਾਂ, ਮੈਂ ਗੜਬੜ ਕਰ ਗਿਆ !! ਅਸੀਂ ਅਤੀਤ ਨੂੰ ਨਹੀਂ ਬਦਲ ਸਕਦੇ. ਪਰ ਹੁਣ ਮੈਂ ਚੀਜ਼ਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਸੁਲਝਾਉਣ ਲਈ x, y ਅਤੇ z ਕਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਹਾਂ. ਕੀ ਕੁਝ ਹੋਰ ਹੈ ਜੋ ਅਸੀਂ ਹੁਣ ਕਰ ਸਕਦੇ ਹਾਂ? ? " n ਜਦੋਂ ਕੋਈ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਨਾਲ ਸਹਿਮਤ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਬਹਿਸ ਨੂੰ ਜਾਰੀ ਰੱਖਣਾ ਮੁਸ਼ਕਲ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ. n n ਹਫਤੇ ਦੇ ਅੰਤ ਵਿੱਚ ਮਜ਼ਬੂਤ ਰਹੋ.
Hi Steph, well done on your gamble free time.
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nWhen it comes to your husbands comments often it helps to agree!! Something along the lines of…..
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n”Yes, I messed up!! We can’t change the past. But now I am doing x,y and z to address things. Is there anything else we can be doing now?”
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nHard to keep an argument going when someone agrees with you.
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nStay strong over the weekend.Здравей Стеф, браво на свободното ти време за хазарт. n nКогато става въпрос за коментари на съпрузите ви, това помага да се съгласите !! Нещо по подобие на ….. nn "Да, обърках !! Не можем да променим миналото. Но сега правя x, y и z, за да реша нещата. Има ли нещо друго, което можем да правим сега ? " n nТрудно е да поддържате спор, когато някой е съгласен с вас. n n Останете силни през уикенда.
Salut Steph, bravo pour ton temps libre pari. n nQuand il s'agit des commentaires de votre mari, il est souvent utile d'être d'accord !! Quelque chose du genre….. nn"Oui, j'ai foiré !! Nous ne pouvons pas changer le passé. Mais maintenant je fais x,y et z pour régler les choses. Y a-t-il autre chose que nous pouvons faire maintenant ?" n n Difficile de maintenir une dispute quand quelqu'un est d'accord avec vous. n nRestez fort pendant le week-end.
Tere Steph, hästi tehtud oma hasartmängude vaba ajaga. n nKui tegemist on teie abikaasa kommentaaridega, aitab see sageli nõustuda !! Midagi sarnast ….. nn "Jah, ma läksin sassi !! Me ei saa minevikku muuta. Aga nüüd ma teen asjade käsitlemiseks x, y ja z. Kas me saame veel midagi teha ? " n n Raske on vaidlust jätkata, kui keegi on teiega nõus. n n Jää nädalavahetusel tugevaks.