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  • in reply to: Coming clean to family about my gambling #76933
    charles
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    Hi pilotdad,

    Good decision to tell your parents. Whilst that’s never going to be easy my advice is to not just present them with the problem – show them what you are going to DO about it. Show them the barreirs you are putting in place, ask them to help with accountability. Show them the support you are using here and/or elsewhere. When I stopped gambling I’ve never seen my mum as happy as when I told her I was getting to GA meetings.

    The actions that will help you stop gambling are the same actions that can help rebuild trust etc.

    Show them this site as well – they can get support in the Friends and Family Forum and groups.

    charles
    Moderator

    Привет, Тай, правила не нарушены 🙂 Я пользуюсь поддержкой, чтобы не действовать в соответствии со своей зависимостью, да. Опять же, добро пожаловать на сайт, и я очень надеюсь прочитать вашу историю или увидеть вас в группе.

    in reply to: Bad relapse after years not gambling #76834
    charles
    Moderator

    Hi Tay, No rules broken 🙂 I am using support so that I don’t act on my addiction yes. Again, welcome to the site and I do hope to read your story or see you in a group.

    charles
    Moderator

    Привет Tay538, добро пожаловать на сайт. Я надеюсь, что вы начнете свою беседу и сможете получать поддержку. Первая часть поддержки заключается в том, что я бы сказал, что мы никогда «больше не зависимы». К сожалению, мы, вероятно, все тестировали это в прошлом и пытались сделать другую ставку – только чтобы обнаружить, что мы все еще зависимы. Я и всегда буду азартным наркоманом, а использование поддержки означает, что я могу решить не действовать в соответствии с этой зависимостью. 🙂 Я надеюсь прочитать вашу историю в вашей собственной ветке, а также проверить расписание группы и, возможно, я увижу вас там. Мы все можем решить не играть. Отредактировано для удаления опечаток!

    in reply to: Bad relapse after years not gambling #76549
    charles
    Moderator

    Hi Tay538, Welcome to the site. I hope you start your own thread and you can start getting support. First piece of support is that I would say we are never “not addicted any more” Sadly we proably all tested that one in the past and tried another bet – only to discover we were still addicted. I am and always will be a gambling adict, using support means I can choose to not act on that addiction. 🙂 I hepe to read your story on your own thread, check out the group schedule as well and maybe I will see you in there. We can all choose to not gamble.

    Edited to remove typos!

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    in reply to: another week #76548
    charles
    Moderator

    Well done SJ. Pilot dad you are alos welocme to join us in one of the groups here. In the meantime maybe start your own thread and you can start getting support. You can stop gambling I promise you.

    charles
    Moderator

    Hi Murr, well done on getting back here and to your meetings.
    I would recommend avoidint those sports bets, they can just keep your addiction ticking over – better to starve it entirely. I used to switch forms of gambling myself, the addiction always followed. That and any small/medium win clearly meant it was “My lucky day” and I’d soon be back gambling as i had before.

    Keep posting.

    charles
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    ایسا لگتا ہے کہ آپ صحیح جگہ پر ہیں پھر 196. مائی جرنل فورم میں کہانیوں پر ایک نظر ڈالیں ، شاید آپ اپنا تھریڈ شروع کریں۔ آپ کو وہاں اور گروپس میں بہت سپورٹ مل سکتی ہے۔

    charles
    Moderator

    Det høres ut som om du er på rett sted da 196. Ta en titt på historiene i My Journal Forum, kanskje start din egen tråd. Du kan få mye støtte der og i gorupene.

    charles
    Moderator

    Úgy hangzik, mintha a megfelelő helyen járna, akkor 196. Vessen egy pillantást a történetekre a My Journal Forumban, talán indítsa el saját szálát. Sok támogatást kaphat ott és a gorupokban.

    charles
    Moderator

    Det lyder som om du er det rigtige sted derefter 196. Tag et kig på historierne i My Journal Forum, måske start din egen tråd. Du kan få meget support der og i goruperne.

    charles
    Moderator

    Det låter som om du är på rätt plats då 196. Ta en titt på historierna i My Journal Forum, kanske starta din egen tråd. Du kan få mycket stöd där och i goruperna.

    charles
    Moderator

    Izklausās, ka tad esat īstajā vietā 196. Ieskatieties stāstos Forumā Mans Žurnāls, varbūt sāciet savu pavedienu. Tur un gorupos jūs varat saņemt lielu atbalstu.

    charles
    Moderator

    Vypadá to, že jste na správném místě, pak 196. Podívejte se na příběhy ve fóru My Journal, možná si založíte vlastní vlákno. Můžete tam získat velkou podporu tam i v hejnech.

    charles
    Moderator

    Kedengarannya seperti Anda berada di tempat yang tepat maka 196. Lihatlah cerita di Forum Jurnal Saya, mungkin memulai utas Anda sendiri. Anda bisa mendapatkan banyak dukungan di sana dan di grup.

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