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Heard a lovely quote today……….
The 3 c’s of life…. Choices, chances, changes
You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.******
I like this n makes a lot of sense to me n trying to live by this motto… Madge it’s so hard living like this to feel used abused rejected by someone u love… With the help from everyone else here we will get through this eventually let’s hope it doesn’t take too long …
Velvet / monique u will b glad to
Know I took ur advice taken a bit of me time b4 I go to work today I went to get my hair done n I’m looking into getting myself a new little car it’s about time I focus on me ***Hi madge spoke to u earlier… I can most certainly identify with everything ur saying as I am in d middle of it… Like I said John is out of the house since last wk I’m using this time to rebuild myself which is hard in itself … I use this site to vent as ur d only ppl that truly no wats going on … I no John will be crawling begging in next couple of wks this is where I need help to plan how to stay strong as my normal cycle is to take him back unfortunately I’m in a position that both of us own the house n John manipulates by saying ” he not staying away as its is house too” I dunno where I stand with regards to this any advice anyone…. I too am torn by my heart as I had a dream family n still want it n so hard to let go of this but I no at this point that I’m so weak n exhausted to get my family bk I need to b strong for every1 involved .., I dunno wat d outcome of my actions will be I’m hoping to return to a family with John it n terrified it won’t happen but it’s a chance I have to take… At the minute I have very little contact with John which is killing me as I’m usually stalking him as we doi know if I ring him r talk to him for while I will slip bk into my nagging etc I work overnights n John minds my boys in d family home dunno no if this right r not but he has no where else to take them n I think it’s best for d boys to b in their home d last few days my 3 yr old is asking lots of innocent questions is daddy coming home where’s daddy can we collect daddy from work etc etc this is upsetting me he’s 3 n shouldn’t b feeling this…. Rant over xx
Аз съм нов в това, четох много, така че мога да се идентифицирам с този цикъл и трябва да го прекъсна. В момента се отделих от моя партньор по cg.
Saya baru dalam hal ini dan telah banyak membaca sehingga saya dapat mengidentifikasi dengan siklus ini dan perlu memutuskannya Saat ini saya telah berpisah dari mitra cg saya Anda berbicara tentang memutus siklus bagaimana Anda bisa melakukannya sebelum mencapai pemisahan
Ik ben nieuw hierin n heb veel gelezen Ik kan me zo identificeren met deze cyclus en moet hem doorbreken Ik ben momenteel gescheiden van mijn cg-partner je praat over het doorbreken van de cyclus hoe kun je dit doen voordat het scheiding bereikt
Jien ġdid għal dan n qrajt ħafna nista 'nidentifika ma' dan iċ-ċiklu u għandi bżonn inkissirha bħalissa sseparajt mis-sieħeb cg tiegħi nitkellem dwar il-ksur taċ-ċiklu kif tista 'u allura dan qabel ma jilħaq is-separazzjoni
Soy nuevo en esto y he estado leyendo mucho, así que puedo identificarme con este ciclo y necesito romperlo. Actualmente me he separado de mi socio cg. Hablas de romper el ciclo, ¿cómo puedes hacerlo antes de que se separe?
Tôi mới làm quen với điều này, tôi đã đọc rất nhiều nên tôi có thể xác định được chu kỳ này và cần phải phá vỡ nó. Hiện tại tôi đã tách khỏi đối tác cg của mình.
Eu sou novo nisso n tenho lido muito eu posso me identificar com este ciclo e preciso quebrá-lo Eu atualmente me separei do meu parceiro cg, você fala sobre quebrar o ciclo, como você pode fazer isso antes de chegar à separação
Jeg er ny på dette n har lest mye jeg kan så identifisere meg med denne syklusen og må bryte den. Jeg har for øyeblikket skilt fra cg -partneren min. Snakk om å bryte syklusen, hvordan kan du gjøre dette før det når separasjonen?
Jsem v tom nový, hodně jsem toho četl, takže se mohu ztotožnit s tímto cyklem a potřebuji ho prolomit. V současné době jsem se oddělil od svého partnera pro cg. U mluvit o prolomení cyklu, jak to můžete udělat, takže než dojde k oddělení
Olen selles osas uus ja olen lugenud palju, nii et saan selle tsükliga samastuda ja pean selle katkestama. Olen praegu oma cg -partnerist lahus u räägime tsükli katkestamisest, kuidas seda teha
Sunt nou în acest domeniu, am citit foarte mult, așa că mă pot identifica cu acest ciclu și trebuie să-l rup. În prezent, m-am separat de partenerul meu de cg. Vorbesc despre ruperea ciclului.