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Heard a lovely quote today……….
The 3 c’s of life…. Choices, chances, changes
You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.******
I like this n makes a lot of sense to me n trying to live by this motto… Madge it’s so hard living like this to feel used abused rejected by someone u love… With the help from everyone else here we will get through this eventually let’s hope it doesn’t take too long …
Velvet / monique u will b glad to
Know I took ur advice taken a bit of me time b4 I go to work today I went to get my hair done n I’m looking into getting myself a new little car it’s about time I focus on me ***Hi madge spoke to u earlier… I can most certainly identify with everything ur saying as I am in d middle of it… Like I said John is out of the house since last wk I’m using this time to rebuild myself which is hard in itself … I use this site to vent as ur d only ppl that truly no wats going on … I no John will be crawling begging in next couple of wks this is where I need help to plan how to stay strong as my normal cycle is to take him back unfortunately I’m in a position that both of us own the house n John manipulates by saying ” he not staying away as its is house too” I dunno where I stand with regards to this any advice anyone…. I too am torn by my heart as I had a dream family n still want it n so hard to let go of this but I no at this point that I’m so weak n exhausted to get my family bk I need to b strong for every1 involved .., I dunno wat d outcome of my actions will be I’m hoping to return to a family with John it n terrified it won’t happen but it’s a chance I have to take… At the minute I have very little contact with John which is killing me as I’m usually stalking him as we doi know if I ring him r talk to him for while I will slip bk into my nagging etc I work overnights n John minds my boys in d family home dunno no if this right r not but he has no where else to take them n I think it’s best for d boys to b in their home d last few days my 3 yr old is asking lots of innocent questions is daddy coming home where’s daddy can we collect daddy from work etc etc this is upsetting me he’s 3 n shouldn’t b feeling this…. Rant over xx
Eu sou novo nisso n tenho lido muito eu posso me identificar com este ciclo e preciso quebrá-lo Eu atualmente me separei do meu parceiro cg, você fala sobre quebrar o ciclo, como você pode fazer isso antes de chegar à separação
Bu konuda yeniyim n çok okuyorum bu döngü ile özdeşleşebiliyorum ve onu kırmam gerekiyor şu anda cg partnerimden ayrıldım döngüyü kırmak hakkında konuşuyorsun bu ayrılmaya ulaşmadan önce bunu nasıl yapabilirsin
मैं इसके लिए नया हूं और बहुत कुछ पढ़ रहा हूं इसलिए मैं इस चक्र के साथ पहचान कर सकता हूं और इसे तोड़ने की जरूरत है मैं वर्तमान में अपने सीजी पार्टनर से अलग हो गया हूं आप चक्र को तोड़ने के बारे में बात करते हैं आप इसे अलग होने से पहले कैसे कर सकते हैं
Ja sam nov u ovome i puno sam čitao pa se mogu identificirati s ovim ciklusom i moram ga prekinuti Trenutno sam se odvojio od svog cg partnera. Govorite o prekidanju ciklusa kako to možete učiniti prije nego što dođe do odvajanja
私はこのnに不慣れで、このサイクルを識別できるので、それを壊す必要があります。現在、cgパートナーから分離しています。サイクルを壊す方法について話します。分離に達する前にこれを行うにはどうすればよいですか。
Aš esu naujokas šioje srityje ir skaitau daug, todėl galiu susitapatinti su šiuo ciklu ir man reikia jį nutraukti.
Új vagyok ebben a témában, és sokat olvastam, így azonosulni tudok ezzel a ciklussal, és meg kell szakítanom. Jelenleg elváltam a cg -partneremtől. U beszélünk a ciklus megszakításáról
میں اس میں نیا ہوں بہت کچھ پڑھ رہا ہوں میں اس چکر سے اس کی پہچان کر سکتا ہوں اور اسے توڑنے کی ضرورت ہے میں نے فی الحال اپنے سی جی پارٹنر سے علیحدگی اختیار کر لی ہے آپ سائیکل کو توڑنے کی بات کرتے ہیں اس سے پہلے کہ یہ علیحدگی تک پہنچ جائے
ਮੈਂ ਇਸ ਲਈ ਨਵਾਂ ਹਾਂ ਬਹੁਤ ਕੁਝ ਪੜ੍ਹ ਰਿਹਾ ਹਾਂ ਮੈਂ ਇਸ ਚੱਕਰ ਨਾਲ ਇਸਦੀ ਪਛਾਣ ਕਰ ਸਕਦਾ ਹਾਂ ਅਤੇ ਇਸ ਨੂੰ ਤੋੜਨ ਦੀ ਜ਼ਰੂਰਤ ਹੈ ਮੈਂ ਇਸ ਵੇਲੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਸੀਜੀ ਪਾਰਟਨਰ ਤੋਂ ਵੱਖ ਹੋ ਗਿਆ ਹਾਂ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਚੱਕਰ ਨੂੰ ਤੋੜਨ ਬਾਰੇ ਗੱਲ ਕਰਦੇ ਹੋ ਇਸ ਤੋਂ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ ਕਿ ਇਹ ਵੱਖਰੇ ਹੋਣ ਤੱਕ ਪਹੁੰਚ ਜਾਵੇ
Jestem w tym nowy n Dużo czytałem, mogę więc identyfikować się z tym cyklem i muszę go przerwać Obecnie oddzieliłem się od mojego partnera cg, mówisz o przerwaniu cyklu, jak możesz to zrobić, zanim osiągnie separację
I am new to this n have been reading a lot I can so identify with this cycle and need to break it I currently have separated from my cg partner u talk about breaking the cycle how can u so this before it reaches seperation