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Heard a lovely quote today……….
The 3 c’s of life…. Choices, chances, changes
You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.******
I like this n makes a lot of sense to me n trying to live by this motto… Madge it’s so hard living like this to feel used abused rejected by someone u love… With the help from everyone else here we will get through this eventually let’s hope it doesn’t take too long …
Velvet / monique u will b glad to
Know I took ur advice taken a bit of me time b4 I go to work today I went to get my hair done n I’m looking into getting myself a new little car it’s about time I focus on me ***

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Thanks v I’m off to get sleep now refuelling talk soon x

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Hi madge spoke to u earlier… I can most certainly identify with everything ur saying as I am in d middle of it… Like I said John is out of the house since last wk I’m using this time to rebuild myself which is hard in itself … I use this site to vent as ur d only ppl that truly no wats going on … I no John will be crawling begging in next couple of wks this is where I need help to plan how to stay strong as my normal cycle is to take him back unfortunately I’m in a position that both of us own the house n John manipulates by saying ” he not staying away as its is house too” I dunno where I stand with regards to this any advice anyone…. I too am torn by my heart as I had a dream family n still want it n so hard to let go of this but I no at this point that I’m so weak n exhausted to get my family bk I need to b strong for every1 involved .., I dunno wat d outcome of my actions will be I’m hoping to return to a family with John it n terrified it won’t happen but it’s a chance I have to take… At the minute I have very little contact with John which is killing me as I’m usually stalking him as we doi know if I ring him r talk to him for while I will slip bk into my nagging etc I work overnights n John minds my boys in d family home dunno no if this right r not but he has no where else to take them n I think it’s best for d boys to b in their home d last few days my 3 yr old is asking lots of innocent questions is daddy coming home where’s daddy can we collect daddy from work etc etc this is upsetting me he’s 3 n shouldn’t b feeling this…. Rant over xx

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Once again thanks for ur many words of wisdom it’s so crazy how u describe everything it’s exactly how I feel act etc u have great understanding wen I read ur post. Feel my chest tighten finally somebody realises exactly wats going on…olodaat is definitely something I will b doing… So far I’m havin ok day bit emotional as my 3 yr old has been constantly asking where is daddy is daddy minding me etc he is a baby but he so in tune his dad is taken them the zoo tomoro .. crazy but this is something he always does after a gambling binge usually I have a go at him ” u only buying ur kids love cos ur feeling **** etc etc” today I did not react wen he told me his plan just went with it I’m working all day tomoro so John do wat he likes ***

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I am new to this n have been reading a lot I can so identify with this cycle and need to break it I currently have separated from my cg partner u talk about breaking the cycle how can u so this before it reaches seperation

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Sono nuovo in questo e ho letto molto posso quindi identificarmi con questo ciclo e ho bisogno di romperlo Attualmente mi sono separato dal mio partner cg parli di rompere il ciclo come puoi farlo prima che raggiunga la separazione

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Είμαι νέος σε αυτό και διαβάζω πολύ μπορώ να ταυτιστώ με αυτόν τον κύκλο και πρέπει να το διακόψω Αυτή τη στιγμή έχω χωρίσει από τον σύντροφό μου cg μιλάτε για το σπάσιμο του κύκλου πώς μπορείτε έτσι ώστε αυτό πριν φτάσει στον διαχωρισμό

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나는 이것에 익숙하지 않다

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Jeg er ny på dette n har læst meget, jeg kan så identificere mig med denne cyklus og har brug for at bryde den.

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Je suis nouveau dans ce domaine et j'ai beaucoup lu, je peux donc m'identifier à ce cycle et j'ai besoin de le briser. Je me suis actuellement séparé de mon partenaire cg.

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Ich bin neu hier und habe viel gelesen Ich kann mich mit diesem Kreislauf identifizieren und muss ihn durchbrechen

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Я новачок у цьому, я багато читав, я можу так ототожнюватися з цим циклом і мені потрібно його розірвати. Наразі я відокремився від свого партнера по cg, ви говорите про розрив циклу, як це зробити, перш ніж він досягне розділу

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Аз съм нов в това, четох много, така че мога да се идентифицирам с този цикъл и трябва да го прекъсна. В момента се отделих от моя партньор по cg.

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Saya baru dalam hal ini dan telah banyak membaca sehingga saya dapat mengidentifikasi dengan siklus ini dan perlu memutuskannya Saat ini saya telah berpisah dari mitra cg saya Anda berbicara tentang memutus siklus bagaimana Anda bisa melakukannya sebelum mencapai pemisahan

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Ik ben nieuw hierin n heb veel gelezen Ik kan me zo identificeren met deze cyclus en moet hem doorbreken Ik ben momenteel gescheiden van mijn cg-partner je praat over het doorbreken van de cyclus hoe kun je dit doen voordat het scheiding bereikt

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