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I have had some urges and dreams this week. The dreams were having me wanting to gamble and actually making it there but not able to.
I had urges not just to go onlione but to actually go to a real casino. and thwe urgesd was more than once. Had i had acess to a vehicle, i
think i might have gone. Those are serious urges but instead of gambling i went on you tube and watched some video and rented a movie to watch.
That helped and the urges passed so i hacve not gambled sincemonday the 18th of march.
Slots aren’t going to go anywhere. There is no rush. Postponing our next bet is one of the most effective weapons available to us. I’m giving myself time. 6 months. Then I’ll reassess how I feel about gambling.
Stay strong!
Knowing that the urges are an inevitable part of recovery – especially in the early days – and that they will pass helps. I suggested to CMC that one option might be to retrain the brain, so that when an urge comes up we always do something else enjoyable – but make it the same thing each time, so that the brain begins to equate the urge with the new thing – be it being in nature, watching a film, eating popcorn … whatever.
I’ve never tried this – but someone ought to and report back. Good to see that you saw the urge out. Strangely, I tend to dream of things and then the opposite happens – so if I had dreamt of being in a casino, then it would mean I would never again go in one. I’ve not had that dream yet. Keep strong!