You are never offensive Laura – you are only kind , supportive and helpful. I too have those self doubts but as I have gotten older I find I don’t care as much about what people think!
You do have great insight (as Monica says below ) and sometimes when I read your posts I am blown away by the angle you see things from.
I once did an online course called mood gym. It was free and by the Australian health service – it made me see the world completely differently.- for example – if someone gives me a dirty look I will now instead of thinking “omg, what did I do?” -I will think I must catch up with them later – looks like they are having a bad day ! I would highly recommend this course although now I have to pay for it . It kinda changed how I perceive things !
Stay strong Laura – the pain and the lack of mobility probably are giving you time to over think things – you are a super person and a great support to everyone one here!