Hi Dan & Vera,
If I may add to the discussion, it has been my feeling that, in most cases, gamblers are quite generous and caring people despite whatever they are facing at the moment.
In my case, even after winning big, I never really was the sort to go out and buy everything in sight. The money would just burn a hole in my pocket until the next trip back to the casino or racetrack. But, if anyone ever asked me for help or they were in need, I would never hesitate to lend a hand.
Vera, I loved your line ” Every time we say no to gambling its a step towards recovery.” I never really thought about it exactly in that context as funny as that may seem , but of course you are exactly right.
Yet, while saying no 99 out of 100 times is excellent, the 1 time that we do say yes is the most disappointing.
Keep up your posts btw, they really do make a difference for many of us!