I wish i had a better understanding of why things have to be the way they are..i don’t understan why he has to live apart right now…its like our marriage is there but not there..the only thing thats different is he lives somewere else…he feels he cant work on his recorvery from here i feel like we cant work on our marriage from there… im trying very hard..he has done alot that is not gambling but the counselor and him really feel is stemming from his addiction and addictive behavior…i have forgiven and moved passed but it feels like im the only one making changes for the relationship…but saying that and rereading that i think to myself…he is one month “no bet” and thats a big change..idk just wish i understood better..i want to support him and i do have a codependency issue im working on..but i’d be here for him if he’d let me..
