the trust im referring to is not in his gambling but his need to lie about little things…minor things just to keep from causing any issues or upsets…i told him he needed to talk to his counselor because it seems its gotten so normal for him to lie it flies out of his mouth without realizing it does..so i havent been questioning just watching… and living out life…he hasnt given me any reason to think anything negative so i wont…its day by day..prayer after prayer..he has started coming to church more often and really seems to enjoy it and getting something from it..making small changes he probably doesnt even realize but i do…our kids do…hes home..more than he ever has been…talks to us…spends time with us…makes plans with us…its been a good week…