Today was truly trying. My sister in law left a message on my face book telling me that my mother in law is dying. She was trying to get hold of my Husband. My Husband had no contact with his family for years and they don’t know that he has died. He didn’t want me to contact them when he was ill or died. So, I didn’t. I thought about it and I emailed her back telling her that her brother had died. I felt bad for telling her when her Mother is dying but if she didn’t hear from him than she would be wondering what was going on. It kind of took my breath away and even though they need to know the truth, I don’t know if they deserve it. There was so much abuse (mental and physical) that my Husband endured as a child from his Mother. Both of his Sister’s have major issues and my Husband decided about 9 years ago to severe his ties to them. I know I did the right thing in telling her but it was a hard decision as they caused so much pain for my Husband. But I couldn’t live with myself not letting them know. I knew at some point I would have to make that decision. I did have positive news today. My realtor is coming by with paperwork for me to sign tomorrow. The inspection went well and the buyers aren’t asking for anything to be fixed. My Mom came by and is acting like nothing happened. I was busy so she didn’t stay long. I need to set up more boundaries with her. Welcome to my crazy world!!
