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Things have been kind of

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icandothis
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Things have been kind of crazy for the last 2 months. I feel like the New Year is just starting. So, I am sitting here thinking of resolutions. Some of you might remember that last year I kind of went overboard with this. Setting myself up for failure. This year I am keeping it simple. I realize that I set these goals because I want to feel better about myself. Even the goal of not gambling. If I can just stop gambling for X amount of time, then I will like myself more and begin to feel better about myself. This year my resolution is to feel better about myself, to like myself, to just feel better…no matter what! Anything I decide to do or not do is going to have to come from that place. I am going to start there and see what happens. Each day will be an opportunity to let go of the things I didn’t do yesterday, to any bad feelings I might have…to like myself just because I have the opportunity to do so. As someone here said…simple doesn’t mean it is easy to do (something like that) I have been practicing NOT liking myself for 56 years. It’s not really working out that well for me.