Hi frankie, I read your post yesterday but didn’t have the chance to reply. Have you read the gambling cyclele? This is what you are stuck in now, it is visions circle and will keep going around and around until something changes.
If nothing changes it will get worse especially if your partner has full access to his money again but in truth you can not stop him, only he can make the decision to seek help and start engaging in recovery and by the sound of it he has no desire to do that right now. You however do have power over your own choices and you can chose to atop this negatively impacting on both yourself and your sons life. Only you can decide how that will look to you, what changes you need to make but can you really go on like this any longer? Please put yourself and your child first and move forward with your life. Thinking of you, advice is easy to give and difficult to take I know, please understand I have been where you are now. Don’t allow yourself to be sucked down in this never ending spiral, you are worth more. Lily x
