[zed who lost way too much]

I feel for you and appreciate your story.

I hid my gambling from my wife for years, and carried the guilt all alone. Eventually she found out of course and that among other reasons led to her leaving me. We were married 14 years, I never thought I’d lose her. Now I’m facing poverty all alone. You’re right about everything, accepting losses and moving on and no longer chasing is the only answer.  I’m trying.