Thanks Lily! Sorry to just be posting now, I’ve been traveling. This site has given me tremendous support over the years and I wish I had managed to absorb more of the wisdom that has been shared here.
I think acceptance is a big thing. It took me a long time to decide that I could never gamble again because of what happens to me. I am a gambling addict. This I now know for sure.
Hope you are still getting along well and coping with the changes.
take care,
Laura