Thanks for your post Vera! I have cooled down and my Daughter has replied to my texts about my Grandson. He will be alright. I am sure he will be able to maneuver with both arms in casts as soon as the pain lessens. Kids are resilient. The most distressing thing about the disagreement or should I say my Daughter’s yelling is that my Grandson was present. I told her that I wasn’t going to participate in that behavior. I said my piece but she kept screaming. My Grandson was visibly upset. I comforted him and told him how much I loved him before I left. I didn’t see any reason to stay as she wasn’t going to stop. I feel like I have done all that I am going to do for her monetarily. I think that at this point a contract will only cause problems in her viewpoint. I do have the control as I can sell the property if needed. I am thinking that I should have the patio roof replaced at her house. It will cost me about $1000 but well worth it. She was supposed to have it done but didn’t. It’s in my best interest to do it. I don’t ask anyone to do anything for me and I take care of my business. She is in her late 30’s. I hope she grows up one of these days. The best thing is that I didn’t gamble, as I would of in the past and I have no urges.
