Hi shaun,
Thanks for replying,
When i came home on friday evening after going shopping i found his bank card cut up! We couldn’t talk to each other in the day because i was still angry the fact he gambled all his money. He told me what happened, he was invited to a poker night where he only put £20 stake in and wom quite a bit from that but on the way home he went to the casino and that’s where he lost his winnings. On top of that he had money on his card and gambled what was left online.
After all of that happened i went shopping and the next day he’s told me the same story that he loves me and our son and doesnt need anything else that hes sorry and i can be in control of his money but i told him i dont want to be cause that causes arguments between us.
Hes asked me to order him a replacement debit card and i said whats the point doing that cause u will end up cutting that up but he said he doesnt want to see it so he cant add his details online but when he gets into relapse mode he doesnt think of the consequence.
Anyway amid all of this drama ive decided to get help for myself and registered with ARA.
I have asked him twice if he will get help and he said yes both times but as yet im not aware of him doing anything to get help he said he has no choice now but to get help….
Regarding the numbers on the fridge he did ring the gordon moody place and they emailed back asking to ring them again but i dont think he did… at least he has rang them but i know he needs to make more of an effort on his part.
Thanks again for replying
Frankie
