I think the internet often elicits more sensational and extreme comments. Perhaps Nguyen deserves the harsh criticism. She is, after all, a bona fide CG who had her life destroyed by gambling. But let me say a few things more. I am very thankful you ask me to keep posting. Your comments are highly appreciated.
The Good
Nguyen is gorgeous. I realize that my fascination with her physical beauty reveals my shallow desires. She has movie star looks, simply unbelievable at her age. Great body. Perfect smile. You get the picture.
Her family. Nice people. One child has an extraordinary qualification, and is advancing toward a specialty that will pay very well. He calls her and loves his mom. Great kid.
Another child lives nearby and has kids if his own and a lovely wife. They visit her all the time and love her to pieces. I’ve met them. Wonderful young family. Her son did mention early on, in no uncertain terms, that gambling ruined his mom’s life.
She doesn’t seem like a gold digger, per se. She’s told me about rich old farts that will giver her all the financial security she could ever want. She’s got a lot of friends in the hairdressing business, and I’ve come to learn that hairdressers are on the scout for single guys with money, then make introductions. Nguyen has been set up with wealthy guys and she doesn’t like their looks, so she says. She insists that she can always survive financially in her profession. She wants a man that’s got youthful looks and who she can be proud to be in public with. She says she’s very picky. I tend to think she’s telling me the truth. I’m a few years younger than her, and fit. Frankly we do look like a great couple on the surface.
Nguyen is very affectionate. I’m a bit weak in that regard. My 20 year marriage was to a friendly person who didn’t care much about her looks, and never held my hand, let alone enjoyed romance or kissing or even leaving the home.
Nguyen can cook huge meals efficiently using her head not a cookbook. Her food beats fine restaurants. She loves to cook. My wife of 20 years was a bad cook.
Nguyen loves to travel. She’s in great shape and we roan around like kids. Whereas my ex would rarely leave home. With Nguyen I get to see the world with a beautiful woman I love.
For all my suspicions that she’s a bit too experienced sexually, I’ve tested myself after our 6 week overseas love fest. She’s free of any std and swears that she hasn’t screwed around much because she’s picky. I tend to believe her on that. I felt ashamed but snooped around her online activity quite a bit. She’s not some easy slut. Perhaps a lot of CG are not promiscuous? In any case, I feel safe with her and prefer to keep it going.
The Bad
I’ve caught her telling lies. Of course. She seems to be a really quick thinker who can make things up like a professional. I’ve called her a professional liar, in a certain non confrontational context. I have a keen insight. I’ve told her to stop making stories up as if to play me like a game of poker. She knows I’m no fool.
Menopausal. You used that term. I’m very turned off by her hot and cold switch. She can become a super bitch without much notice. She tells me that she never stays mad for long. She often loses her cool and gets very mean, even cruel. Verbally abusive. She promptly says she’s sorry and only says it because she loves me. I don’t care for this at all! She stopped getting her period about seven years ago. Are a lot of women her age, unbalanced due to hormones or what? I’ve told her that I can’t take it, and young women don’t act like her. She seems to know I’m right. She has an uncontrollable side but it’s purely verbal abuse, and almost always when we are apart. On the phone. Not really fighting when we are together.
Gambling. She’s pretty bad. She says she gave it up before, and wants to quit. She wants me to keep her in check, by controlling our money and keeping her casino expenditures in the $100 – $200 range. Not $1000s like she blew before.
Travels. I have plenty of time on my hands, with employees running a company and various rental income. I set aside about $40,000 for travels, in January. I spent $12,000 or so. Big deal. Not a lot, at my age I want to enjoy life. I’m planning to take her to UK in coming weeks. I was educated at a British university about 30 years ago. I’d love to take her back. What harm could that be?
Well, you asked me to keep posting.
Any feedback is highly appreciated. Thanks.
There may be spelling/ word errors, as my phone spell check often picks the wrong word.