Thanks for the post Carole! I can’t believe that I have come this far since the death of my Husband. I had a lot of support from my friends, you especially, and God. When I was going through the hard times, grieving, I prayed and prayed to have the strength to get through it. I think because of the holidays, last week was especially hard for me. I was at my Daughter’s and she cried with me and we comforted and supported each other. Mostly I have good days now. My handyman/neighbor came over this morning and told me that his Mother died on Monday. I hugged him and told him that if he or his sister needed anything, I am here. I bought a card that I am taking over later. How hard, right at Christmas time! We never know when our time will be up and I enjoy the moments now. I do what I want and I am learning to say no to the things I don’t want to do. I guess I am saying, live for now! It is snowing here today. I am not used to seeing snow so it is all new to me and soo beautiful. I stocked up on soups and I have stuff to make grilled cheese sandwiches, so I am all set!!! Carole, I totally understand my sister getting my nephew out of jail, especially because it is close to Christmas. Even though we don’t talk, I worry about her and I have concerns. I’m excited to see what the new year brings me also. I have a lot of things that I would like to do and a few adventures that I would like to experience. I am still trying to find my niche, my place in life and I know that good things are awaiting me. I hope that everyone has a great gamble free day.