Hi Shaun,
Thanks for replying so quick, i just feel hopeless, i’ve suggested going out to the cinema or just for food but he constantly blames me for wanting to spend money.
I said to him at least come out for me, he complains the relationship is dead but he doesn’t want to try or suggest to do things so what does he expect??
I’ve been lost in his web for about 7 years now. He kept his addiction secret for a year but by then i’d fallen in love with him. I’m 27 hes 30. He’s been gambling for 12 years or longer. We have a son together who’s 3 in 2 weeks and its my birthday end of August.
I’m not even expecting a card because he’s never had money to buy us anything.
In your experience of gambling do you think if i printed out phone numbers he could call for help it would make a difference or to show i’m trying to sway him to get some sort of help?
I don’t want to throw him out again because he will hold it against me and make it about me when really its about his addiction.
Hope to hear your suggestions
Thanks
Frankie
