Thanks for all of your advice, I am in charge of my own finances, myself and my partner manage are own finances separately as we both have our own houses etc, I agree totally with all comments and am putting measures in place which will prevent me from gambling moving forward, the main problem was my savings account is an online account so I could move savings back into my main bank account in an instant, I am going to put them into a second savings account I used to use which is only accessible via a pay in savings book which will prevent me from having accessible funds at an instant, I did some baking yesterday to take my mind off gambling and am into day 2 gamble free, I know the anger and pain of the loses will ease in time and the fact is the money is gone and I need to accept that and move on
