Well Vera I suppose my spade work was the hard labour I had to do when I’d really spiralled out of control 10-15 years ago, that’s when the hard lessons were learnt. Fortunately this time thro experience I have recognised the problem at a stage when it’s done some damage but it’s minimal compared to what it could have been. My money is safely stashed away in “bank of Dad”, I’m my parents postman so I finish my round there everyday and join them for dinner. And everyday I give my Dad £20 or a multiple of £20 if I’ve had a day off to save £140 a week. Im hoping to pay off my recent foolishness in 100 days, that’s my new challenge, and I am really enjoying the new challenges.
Brilliant abt, indeed I’m hoping all our tomorrow’s will be better. Find your peace with your losses (a battle lost) and rise above it and win your own personal war. Keep posting mate, it’s good to hear from everyone.
