I am sorry about your experiences with your wife.
My situation is very difficult because he doesn’t accept the break up.
It makes me very anxious because I don’t wanna hurt him.
We are still in touch and he still expects me to visit him soon but I don’t want to go.
He says he’s not gambling but his brother is in control of his finances because he is afraid of having a relapse due to the stressful situation with me.
He said he wants this relationship at any price and if I don’t go visit he will come to my country.
When I broke up he cried a lot, threatened gambling and suicide, went to work drunk and said he would quit his job and live on welfare drinking all day.
I then told him I would think about all the things he said, I am scared to death of hurting him and then he continued with daily messages and conversations as if nothing has happened.
He wants to buy the tickets today and I have been avoiding him until I finally need another conversation about a break up again and it’s making me extremely anxious.
It is not easy to be on my shoes, I guarantee.