Thank you velvet
Your words really do help me. I did not give him the money for the haircut, whereas I may have done so in the past.
He has gone to work today and did not ask for money, though he asked his sister for a lift as she works that way on. She knows not to give him money and she is strong.
You are right about the money, we have always spent on the kids and put them first be as we are trying to think about slowing down, we know we will not have the money when we finish work as our pensions are not as good as we anticipated.
I just said to my daughter last night that I feel weary, still looking after our 26 year old. Sometimes I just feel like packing up and moving somewhere peaceful.
I was quite low yesterday. I took a day off to gather myself and get myself focused. My husband is not his usual perky self, and I think things are getting to him.
Well I’m off to work now ( I work 3 days a week, luckily doing something I enjoy). Even though I enjoy, when I feel like this I feel tired and could just stay in bed all day, but that won’t help.
If only he could sort himself, but at the moment it feels like it’s going on forever.
In fact when he gets paid at the end of the month, will he do the same again, leave himself with no money, no life, so going out, no money for anything. What a stupid way to live. No happiness. I will be there tonight velvet.
Hope, and thanks once again
