Thank you (((Kpat))) and (((Liz))) for your kind posts. Kpat, I posted on your thread. I have committed a huge sin in my family today. I did not get up to go to the Rememberance Day ceremonies and to spend the day with my husband and his family. I had a difficult time sleeping last night so I was very tired today, and didn’t get up till 12:30 pm. Every time Danny would wake me up, I kept falling back instantly asleep. My husband has military service as does his father and three brothers. In his family, it is the most important day of the year. There will be unkind words directed towards me today from my husband when he gets home. Dinner last night was a bit weird. I noticed that Danny’s daughter did not come over and hug me like she normally does when she sees me and when she leaves. They live in the city. I don’t know what sin I committed there! Lol! Also my daughter’s girls didn’t come to talk to me right away. I asked my daughter why and she said that the girls said I had said I didn’t like them. I would never say that. I said I didn’t like their behavior the couple days I was babysitting them. They were upset that I had said I wasn’t babysitting them anymore. Lily admitted that I hadn’t said those words but that’s how they were feeling. Seventeen of us that were at the dinner will be going to Mexico on January 1st. Included are 8 young children which will be chaotic as they get excited when they are together with their cousins. I have to remember that these are not my children and that I’m not responsible for how they are behaving. Danny goes back to work tomorrow morning for 2 weeks. My cats like me right now no matter what I do or don’t do. Carole