[Tomtom01]

Thank you for your message and it is so nice to know that other people are in a simlar situation and i am not alone. I think your  advice about giving up my finances is a good one and which may help over time to re build some trust hopefully.

Im sorry to here that you have also been lieing to your loved ones but it seems you have already taken some steps to help beat your addiction.

I will try and post here often as i think it is going to be a big help for me moving forward. 

I am also determind to be honest even if like you say it is not what my wife wants to here. It will be good for is both.