[Rdy4Chng]

Thank you for responding. I am trying to understand what you mean by the car crash analogy. So I hit my “preverbial” car into him somehow? We don’t share finances at all and I have never missed making any bill payments. Aside from the fact he doesn’t like me gambling, I’m not sure how I’ve “crashed” into him. 
I’m not trying to argue or disagree but I am just trying to understand what you are saying. 

And as far as me sounding easy going about it, I’m not. Maybe it sounds that way but I stress over this every minute of every day. As I said, it’s KILLING me inside.

But I do thank you for responding. It is good to hear from others who are going through this or who have been in the same situation.