thank you for being here Sad. I have many times thought about why we are helping others and had many questions raised in my mind.
Is not it that we like others to treat us the same? is not it that we feel others are not doing what we expect them to do? It might be long berried thought that now is coming to surface, when we saw how helpless we are when in gambling actions? when I was younger and could not or I would not dare standing against my older brother, who was dictating his will to me? Is not that there and then no body tried to help me? no body understood what I was feeling in my small world? And still feeling that they are not able to understand what their action created in my life?
I am not blaming what happened to me on them, but just saying it all might be connected some how, to what we are doing and might do.
Helping others for me some times in here is like I am helping my own mother who is far from me. Some times I feel I am helping that child within me and showing him there is help now available, and telling him to rest and not to worry.
It was just my thought.
All the best.
