[bosslady]

We have had so many family engagements going on it has been hard to just be still for a while…..i caught him in a lie yesterday…over something that was an honest mistake…i told hime id rather him confess the mistake then lie to me…because its as if idk whats true and whats not…and it wasnt pertaining to gambling or anything serious in nature..but his reaction was to lie instead of possible make me angry or for us to argue… id rather argue…we never did for 17 years and this is were we are…id rather argue or discuss or hash out the issue then be lied to because a lie always come back..he told me the lie just came out of nowere and he didnt even know why he felt the need to lie…and that is something he wants to discuss with his counselor…