I just spent ten minutes writing a post to you Lizbeth and LOST IT!!!!I want to howl!!!
Here goes again but I will make it shorter this time.
From what I read, the biggest stress in your life is you mam
You coped with your husband’s illness and untimely death. Recovered from a heart attack. Sorted your two daughter’s problems. Knew when to “hold on” and “let go” of your grandson and youngest daughter but are still overwhelmed by your mom’s issues.
Would she agree to have a hearing test to explain why she accuses you of saying things you did or didn’t say, or to have a scan to rule out some type of dementia? I say this with respect and reserve, Lizbeth but her memory loss may be indicative of some cerebral changes. Lots of therapies available nowadays
Step back. Involve the whole family. Don’t allow yourself to carry the full burden of your mother’s future alone. I gather you are not her only child!
Keeping you in the prayers Liz!
God is good!
PRAYING THIS “DELIVERS”!!!!