Dear (((Bettie)))! I am just now starting to catch up with people’s threads, as I didn’t have the emotional energy to do so, since I decided to leave my marriage. I read your comment of God forbid that you lose your job, and I agree with that statement. You do have skills working at the bank, and any bank would be happy to have you as their employee. My experience in leaving this marriage is that most of what I worried about, never came to pass. One thing I ask myself when I have a huge worry is what the worse case scenario would look like, and then I decide if that is something that I could handle, and if it is, I let it go. In the worse case scenario, circumstances may not be ideal but they probably will change for the better over time. I have a Coca Cola Santa Claus decoration for you to sell on eBay as well as a bride and groom Pez dispenser. it may take me a while to get it to you as I have to find the right box, some brown paper to wrap it in, etc. Carole
