Dear (((Bettie)))! Sorry about your friend dying. You obviously made a huge impact on her if she is talking about you at the end of her life. Wow!! That workplace of yours sounds like a soap opera. I don’t like drama or uncertainty so I would be stressed out waiting for the sh** to hit the fan! It sounds like your manager could be let go. A girlfriend and a wife??? Not good! Sorry to hear that your neck and arm are rebelling on you. It’s not surprising though as you didn’t return to work on modified work to give your body a chance to adapt to working fulltime. I wonder why your doctor didn’t order that?? I hope that you get a lot of money from your bonus so that you can clear up some debt. Hang in there girl and be happy that you’re not part of that drama going on in your workplace, and can sit back and watch it all unfold!! Carole