Bettie–Re the "no grandparents" thing…we just went through that with our oldest when they had their first (which I think is the main reason I FINALLY made the break from gambling). My wife was a little put off but they felt it was a private time just for the 3 of them and who were we to argue (and we felt we had lots of justification–they lived with us for awhile, we paid for this and that–all the things parents do). Trust me when you see that little face staring up at you (or sleeping hopefully!!) all those thoughts will disappear. Enjoy.
