I too get that paranoid type notion every now and then when I feel I have revealed too much info on this site, but then I ask myself , "who reads my thread?"
I doubt if any of my family would bother and if they ever do all I can say is that everything I have ever written is true and documented in good faith.
Nothing is ever totally private, even hand written letters so all we CGs can do is be true to ourselves and loyal to our families friends and colleagues as far as recovery allows.
I hope your MIL gets the medical attention she *****. Like babies, old people can become ill very suddenly but sometimes take longer than infants to recover. I hope she is not in any distress or pain on her birthday.
