Good Morning Jazz!
Carole is so right about not trying to fix everything immediately. I am the same way, I want things to be back to the way they were in a neat and tidy box 🙂 Then I would mess it up and try to fix it again. I think some of us are expert fixers and when we mess up again, we fix it and it is a viscious circle. I think I am addicted to fixing my checkbook balance. I play all sorts of games moving money around and getting it just right and then one night blows it all up and I have to start over. I am getting quite sick of doing that, which is good!
I have separate accounts from my husband’s. I think you said you have the same setup. I have asked him numerous ***** if we could put our money together and he always says no. He is a tough ****** and doesn’t believe in having to get help or talking out feelings or any of that "sappy" stuff as he says. We don’t fight often and if we ever do, it is usally something to do with money.
Anyway, enough about that! Good luck on finding something to fill your time, you will find something that you enjoy. I have started donating money to causes I am interested in. It seems better for them to get it than the machines – right! As a CG, it is hard to give up money for anything besides gambling, so this is helping me to see that money can do lots of good, not just bad.
I hope you have a great day Jazz! Talk to you soon,
Lisa
Not Gambling…one day at a time
