Hi and welcoem to the forum. Im sure you will be reading a lot you will relate to on the other threads here. You will also be reading the success stories – what are they doing that you can apply to your own situation?You can get a blocker for your PC which will stop your visiting ANY gambling site on it. Betfilter.com is one though there are others. Maybe connect to the helpline they have here.
There are plenty of GA meetings in Scotland as well so that would also be a good option for you.
Itll help if you do have the courage to tell your fiancee, don’t just present the problem though. Show her what you are going to do to DEAL with the problem as well. Things like installing the blocker, getting to GA etc She could also help by holding the finances etc as well so that you are accountable. Keep posting and let us know what positive actions you are taking.