Thanks RG, Cat, and P for your posts today. Thanks for your replys, I will take care of myself and I don’t have a problem asking other’s in my support group eg, family, friends, for help so I can get away. Just getting out does help me from going insane. I have that superwoman complex, but this is not the time, and I realize that. Cat, I really feel for your friend and her daughter. That must be soo hard caring for her daughter and 11 month old twins. God bless her!! Hubby is having a hard day, he is sleeping again. My neighbor put a new battery and windshield wipers on the truck for me today. Since I will be driving it for awhile till I can get my car repaired I need it top shape. I took it to the car wash and cleaned it real good, and my neighbor came and visited with Hubby. I got a call this afternoon from my Husband’s co-worker. He locked himself out of the building and needed back in. I drove down and let him in with Hubby’s keys. I guess my Husband having lung cancer has caused him to stop smoking. He has been 3 weeks smoke free now. That almost made me cry, that is a good, positive thing to come out of his illness. RG- I do feel like I am being tested. We live in a condo, and have a condo above us. In the last month, they have had 2 pipes burst, which caused flooding in our condo. It caused minimal damage, which is being fix, but a big mess to deal with. Then my car breaking down. But that is life, you have to deal with it and move on. P, I will take your advice and get a pedicure next week, it’s been awhile. I have to get my mammagram, and physical next week. I thought of putting them off, but I need to take care of my health and that would be crazy to put them off. It is 84% here today, beautiful. I am going to sit outside and get some sun, that always makes me feel better. Take care everyone.Seize all the good things in life