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Re: Feeling hopeful

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lizbeth4
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My Daughter is so full of anger.  When she picked up my Grandson yesterday she was fuming.  I think she is angry with herself.  And I have changed the way I react to her, I walk away now.  After my Husband’s illness and death, I changed a lot.  The last 10 years of my life were spent dealing with people’s addictions and mine too.  My Husband was a acholic, my Daughter’s **** problem, and about that time my gambling addiction started.  I am tired of it all!!  I can’t bail someone out of their addiction, they have to work on themselves.  My Daughter is 34 years old, she can’t keep blaming other’s for her actions.  I have let her manipulate me, and I think she is angry now that I have put my foot down and said no, it’s enough.  I have enabled her.  Life is too short.  I can’t keep living through others, I want my own life and experiences.Seize all the good things in life