Dear (((Liz)))! I wasn’t going to say anything about it maybe being too soon to scatter your husband’s ashes, but seeing as you mentioned that you may not be ready to do so, I thought I would put in my thoughts about it. I wouldn’t recommend it till you’re good and ready on your own time schedule. I know your mother has your best interests at heart but it has to be your decision. If you do things too soon, it may send you into an emotional tailspin. Grief cannot be rushed as much as we want the hurt to end. Thinking about you (((Liz)))! Carole
