maybe your sister is not the best person to hold your money Izzi?
If it is leading to stress and conflict, I would get somebody else. Think of her side of the bargain. If you sink you will pull her down too. Is she afraid that might happen? Maybe she is still angry with you and using her new power to control you. All very unhealthy ways of dealing with your problem, Izzi. I think you entered this arrangement very quickly Izzi and you sound resentful, already!
Just my thoughts!
