as a cg I know that I have often taken advantage of my hubby”s compassion and love for me. It never serves me well, because its too easy to take either the money, the acceptance and run right to the casino. On the other hand though when I have gone way over board and know i have taken full advantage of every angle I need the compassion to just continue with living . Its what I need to start again.
I resent the tough love approach but it at the same time it has saved my bank account and me I guess. It is complex to be a cg and to trying to figure out what works can change on a dime. Going to stop the ride all together and just quit gambling is what I need to do. FG
