Hi K, Ooh a trip to Bali, we went 4 years ago(25th Wedding Anniversary) and absolutely loved it. It is a long way from UK, and if my health would stand it, we would be going again next year for out 30th Wedding Anniversary too. That 7 weeks will fly by and I feel sure you really don’t need to ‘lose the flab’, but can also understand your thinking 🙂 xx I believe you should express your excitement, even though it may cause initial upset, it can be discussed. Why don’t they want you to discuss it ? is it something personal to them ? Try not to feel uncomfortable about it – don’t let their hang up ruin your build up to such a great break. Love to you xxxWe must look forward and must never look back, we cannot change what has already happened. The future is brighter.Looby Loo